Six of Us Plus One Above

So Much Has Changed!!

2011-09-13T15:15:00.000-05:00

Wow! Yes, we are still here. Just took a very, very long vacation. I am looking back at my posts and realize, just how long its been. Sooooo..... I am just gonna start over. As of today, Michael's business is thriving, and we are blessed for that. We currently have 2 employees, plus him and myself. He is coaching football for the 3rd and 4th grade team, and he does love this. Last September, we got our second Harley, and Ultra Classic. And boy we do love this luxury ride in the wind. In February of this year, we go both bike custom painted. I will try to post pictures later of them. They are sweet, thanks to the artist, Michael's cousin, Paul.

In the midst of our vacation, I have become an entrepreneur, and opened my own little gift shop. I still do all the accounting and bookwork for the electrical business, just now it is out of the house kinda work, and along side of that, I have my store. It is so much fun to find new things to fill the shelves. I still stay busy with the kids and the house, but it is fulfilling to be "back at work".

Madison is now in Jr High school. She is playing volleyball with the Centralia Panther team at school. She is still not a grace full girl, but she is trying her best, and I see her striving to improve, which is important. Her grades are still good, and she seems to really like school. She is into hanging out with her friends more and more, and I guess these are all signs, that my little girl is growing into a beautiful young lady. She will be a teenager in 5 short months.

Dylan is still into every sport available to him. He is currently playing soccer, and is probably one of the fastest ones on the team. He loves this sport probably almost the best of all sports and really puts effort into being better. He is still playing the saxophone, and impresses us with his talent. He is currently in the 6th grade, and is learning what it takes to make it through jr high and high school. It is taking a little more effort than he likes to put into it, but with time, we will get through it.

Sydnie, is now in the 2nd grade. She has recently become a member of the Little Steps competitive cheer leading team. They start competition in November and to this point she loves this challenge. She is currently working on perfecting her back hand spring on her own. She is the biggest prissy little tom boy you will ever meet. Never a challenge she won't face. And she is always looking for her best dress to wear to the farm to jump on the hay bales. She too is currently playing soccer, and has had a great start to her season.

That brings me to Xavier! Omg! Omg! This vibrant little 3 year old is full of love and compassion and is still ornery as you'll get out. He started full time day care last spring, and this fall goes to daycare 4 days a week, and preschool 4 half days a week. He loves to ride to school on the big school bus. We are very fortunate to have the preschool facility in our school district. He is finally starting to grow and actually improved his over all size from under 10 percent at his 2 year check up to just around 30 percent at his 3 year check up. He loves to hang with daddy, and help to feed the cows, ride the 4 wheeler or motorcycle, tractor, skid loader, or anything else. He is truly a little farm boy.

So that is where we stand today. It is still a busy wonderful life, that I wouldn't change for the world, even though there are days I wonder. Who Doesn't??? Until we meet again.....................

Fall Photos

2011-01-04T13:45:00.002-06:00

Just a few of the great pics my sis got of us earlier this fall. These are mostly unedited, so they are just candid. And just a few of the ones I want to get posted. Enjoy

Good bye to 2010, Hello 2011

2011-01-03T20:57:00.002-06:00

So, time is already passing quickly, and I haven't even gotten new photos uploaded. I wish I could turn the clock backwards, or at least slow it way down. I do hope to get some photos up tomorrow.
We had some great time with family over the holidays, and also gained a new family member. Michael got me a shorkie for Christmas and he has been with us for a couple weeks now. His name is Deuce and we are really enjoying him. I will get a picture of him up tomorrow too (hopefully). I will be working on year end for the business so we will have to see.
So here's to hoping you all have had a great start to 2011, and hope it is a good year all the way through. More tomorrow.

We Are Back!!

2010-12-16T10:50:00.002-06:00

Oh my, where do I start? A whole year has almost passed since I have really blogged. It has been incredibly busy, and I miss visiting all the blogs I used to visit as well as blogging my self. So this is just a quick hello to say I am going to be updating our blog with posts and new pictures ( I think they are well overdue). And I hope all our old visitors will return along with lots of new peeps. So stay tuned for the overhaul. I am sure it will be a long one:)

Merry Christmas 2010

2010-12-07T15:53:00.001-06:00

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Please Please Help me Raise Money for the March of Dimes

2010-03-22T20:18:00.002-05:00

Just a quick hello to everyone. We have been enjoying the nice weather that has finally arrived in Kansas. Sring is here and spring break is over. I am once again asking each and everyone of you to think about donating money to the March of Dimes. It is an important organization to us, as all of our kids were born early, yet we were fortunate that they were all born healthy. Not all parents and babies born early are as fortunate. We do walk in honor of our sweet Mariah, even though prematurety was not the cause of her death. However, we hope that with our help the March of Dimes hopes that one day all babies are born healthy and no other parent will have to go through what we went through with the loss of a child at birth. So if you can spare anything at all, even $5, every little bit helps. Just click on my link button on the side and make a donation. Thanks for all your help in advance. The walk is April 11th, I believe in Manhattan, so if you have nothing better to do, put together a team and walk for your support.

Happy Valentines Day

2010-02-14T18:43:00.004-06:00

We want to wish all our readers a very Happy Valentines Day! Hoping that you got to spend the day with the ones you love. It is bitter sweet to us. Not only it is the month of my Dad's birthday, but also the day my Aunt was buried. So it definetly seems at times a little over rated, but yet hold those very dear to us close at heart.

Not much has been carrying on in our house. Dylan spent the night with a friend Friday night and Syd had her girls night with Grandma, so it was a little quiet here Friday night. It was nice as I had been out of the house all day and so a quiet ending to the busy day was super nice. A big thanks to Juang and Steve for having Dylan to spend the night with Kenyan. And to my mom for having Syd, so she could make special memories with my niece, Abbie.

Saturday, Michael and I started the day by going out together and cutting wood. None the less, we also go stuck in a big snow drift that is still out there and had to get pulled out, haha! We just chilled out the rest of the day after we got done with the first load of wood. It was quite a workout. It was good to have a little time alone with him, even if it was work, and get a good workout while doing it.

So today we started off the day by going to the casino for brunch. We then went over to see little Alexis Ellerman. This is the first time we have gotten to see her since she was born. I felt we were all healthy at this point and that it was a good time to see her. She is beautiful. She was very content with Syd holding her and talking to her.

So tonight I leave you with a photo of Michael and I on Valentines Day. We have been together for 16 years, and married for 13 this coming June.

Videos

2010-02-08T19:20:00.002-06:00

here are the girls doing their Renegade Man Makers. I cannot get the dance video to post. I will try again tomorrow. Looks like I mayb be pulling an all nighter with Syd. She is not feeling well.

Ahhh, Fat Free Sugar Free Cool Whip!!

2010-02-08T15:23:00.008-06:00

I know you are all wondering about this post, but keep reading, it's not what you are thinking=)Below I am adding some video of the kids. The first one is of them dancing at half time of last weeks home basketball game. The dance team does this as a fundraiser, and well, our kids love to dance, so they loved it. Dancing is also a great way to burn energy, and calories, and get in a little exercise.

Speaking of exercise, Michael has been going to the gym and seeing a personal trainer for 2 weeks now. And yes, it is all legit, it is a male trainer (for those who are wondering LOL) and thanks to Joe, Michael is bringing home this "fit" attitude. I have been doing 20 minutes on the treadmill every day, and then doing a great cardio workout and focus on certain area's three times a week. Michael sees Joe 4 times a week, and he is teaching some of it to me and the kids. Along with all that, we are eating a little better as well, not that we ever really ate bad. Which brings me to, fat free, sugar free Cool Whip is really good. You can't tell the difference. So these last three videos are of the kids doing the Renegade Man Maker! It is a big challenge, I can't do very many!! Ok, I am having trouble getting the video to upload. I will try again later!

Eighteen Months Ago, and A Few Days

2010-01-27T11:54:00.004-06:00

Well, it's hard to believe that eighteen months ago and a few day, little Xavier came into our lives and once again changed them forever. Since then he has grown into quite a little monkey. As of today, he weighs 24 lbs. oz, and is 32 inches long. He has finally tripled his birth weight! He is a shaker and a mover. He runs, jumps, and climbs on everything. And also tries to do "cartwheels" and somersaults like his siblings. He loves to dance. And he talks up a storm, not all in language that is understood, none the less. He is drinking from a sippy, uses his fork and spoon to feed himself, and eats mostly what we do. He loves to take his clothes off and take a bath. He is still sleeping in his crib in mom and dad's room, he is just not ready for a big boy bed, and since he is not crawling out of the crib, we won't fix what is not broken.

Some of the words he says are: mama, dada, papa, milk, bye bye, juice, shoes, tractor, car, puppy, you see that, where is it, sissy, ball, yes, no

Some words he understands: all of the above plus, coat, hat, boots, shower, bath, blankie, binky, up, down, go get, brothie(brother), Madison, Syd, Dylan, TV, Baby first(his tv program), all gone, drink, hungry

Madison is home not feeling well today. So far that is all it has been, but we shall see what this afternoon brings. She is doing well in school. She is playing the clarinet in band and progressing with it quite well. She has a birthday coming up soon and will be turning 11. Hard to believe.

Dylan is playing league basketball right now. Their games are on Saturday mornings. He does enjoy this for sure. He is doing well in school also. Not to much to report for him.

And Syd, she has some big accomplishments to mention. She stopped wetting the bed. She was finally ready to use the alarm and she really didn't even need it. She wore it for about 6 nights, and was staying dry and decided she didn't want to wear it. So she has been staying dry without the alarm for the last 10 days or so. And has actually wore "panties" to bed the last 4 or 5 nights as well. We are so proud of her. She too is doing well in school. The gets tired of all the reading, but I can't say that I blame her for that.

That is about all we have to post for now. Michael is staying busy as usual, which is a blessing. And for me, well, I stay busy as well.

I am going to leave you with a picture of Xavier with his new haircut and what he looks like at 18 months.

Where to Begin, Ugh, It's Been Too Long!

2010-01-13T10:24:00.002-06:00

Wow, can't believe I haven't posted since October. Guess it has been crazy busy here and I just haven't been up to it. So what has happened since then? Hmmm... Well November was just a busy month as always. Nothing major to report that I can think of. I was busy getting our home ready for the Holiday Home Tour put on by the Corning City Library. It was a success. And yes, I was ready for it. With that said, I was also ready to take down the trees the day after Christmas. Oh, Christmas, what a mess this year, but also a time of great memories made. My mom came over, well, Michael went and got her on Christmas Eve afternoon and she spent the evening with us. That way she was not alone and snowed in on Christmas morning. And snowed in she would have been, I think just about everyone was. No mass on Christmas eve or Christmas, it was really sad and different not going to mass. She ended up staying here until Sunday morning. On Saturday, we went to KC and picked up family from the air port. It was alot of fun having them around for a week. The kids were all excited for Christmas this year and it was a lot of fun, just being snowed in with no cares in the world and no where to run.

Sydnie also celebrated her 6th birthday in December. I cannot believe she is already 6. Have no idea where the time has gone. She is turning into a real little lady. She is a mixture of girly girl and tom boy. She will go out and help her dad work, but ususally wants to wear her best Sunday dress to do it. haha She is always willing to help out a friend in need, and is quite the little mother hen. She has a supreme love of baby anythings. Whether it be dogs, chickens, humans, kittins, you name it, she will take care of them.

So with the new year brings new goals. I am hoping to keep a few of them this year. I am hoping to keep up the books better and therefore spend more time doing things with the kids that I have been putting off. And I am going to lose those last 10 pounds I have been working on. Hope 2010 brings lots of health, wealth, and happiness to all of our readers out there. I will try to post pictures soon.

Oh What a Week!!!!

2009-10-30T15:21:00.002-05:00

So to start of the week, when Syd got home on Monday, she just looked so sleepy. So I took her temp. and it was fine, but I thought to myself,"how could that be?" So an hour later I checked it again and it was on the climb. Funny how a mother knows her children like that. So we started the Tylenol remedy. I had already bumped her Flovent up the night before because she was starting to cough. So with her asthma and all, I decided to go ahead and get her to the ER for influenza testing. And they did an influenza and strep because her throat was so red. Both negative at the time. But they both have a pretty good rate of a false negative also. So we went home for the night with a follow up in the clinic in the am. Fever was 103.5 in the am when she got up, so we got ready and headed to the clinic. Not alot of change, other than the sound to her cough. So they put her on both an oral antibiotic and the Tamiflu as they were pretty sure she had the H1N1. We came home and she laid around most of the day. Fever would go up and down, and held out around 101. Then after her Tamiflu at bed time she started to vomit (because of the med). And with that she spiked a fever of 105!! OMG! What to do? I already had cool clothes on her and she was chillin. But she was not keeping things in her tummy, so Tylenol wasn't going to help. So I again called the ER and got to talk to Dr Kelly (the provider she saw in the clinic), and he said to come down and get some suppositories of Tylenol for her. So I did. She didn't much like them, but it did bring her fever down. And she finally broke the fever around lunch on Wed. So I took her to her Halloween party at school on Thursday. But she still hasn't got much for appetite and is quite pale and out of energy. So it has been a long week here. Just after recovering from Dylan and Xavier's illness, she got hit.

And on the note of Xavier, he's been a little fussier than usual. But I found a molar coming in on the top right side of his mouth. So I am sure that has been the problem. And the fact that his mommy time has been a little on the short side this week :)

So everyone enjoy the weekend and have a safe and Happy Halloween and I will try to post Halloween pictures this weekend.

On My Mind

2009-10-24T20:34:00.002-05:00

So I have been thinking too much lately maybe. But there are a few things I would like to share with you. Like, if I had to describe my kids in one word what would it be? And it would go like this.

Madison = hard working

Dylan = Tenderhearted

Sydnie = Sassy

Xavier = Determined

And the other things I have thinking of are this. What is one thing that sticks out in my head about loved ones who have passed? And that would go like this.

My dad loved to eat sliced cheddar cheese with his apple pie. And my Grandma Jeanne ground her teeth like no other. Grandpa Flentie loved pineapple upside down cake and also hated it when us kids would eat all his dried pineapple that Grandma kept in a canister on the dishwasher. My Grandpa Eisenbarth would pop his false teeth, and it was annoying. And he loved sandwiches with those little u shaped bologna rolls diced up on them. And Grandma Eisenbarth, well I have alot for her, but some that stick in mind was that she almost always had an apron on, just one that tied around the waste and house slippers. And she didn't rinse the soap off her dishes when she washed them, strange that I know that huh. And one of my fondest memories of my Aunt Elaine is at Maddy's birth. She told me to PUSH, and she was in my face. And that day she had on these pink scrubs. My mom was video taping and she didn't know that the camera was still on. The picture is of Elaine's legs and the floor haha, and my mom pipes up "she's nice and pink isn't she and Elaine agrees, all the while what you are seeing is her pink legs. LOL. How about my Grandma Ayers. She didn't watch much TV and if she did it was like a Nashville channel or something. Anyway, she used to sit and tap her toes to the stereo a lot. She made the best cinnamon swirl bread, and she always had a Schwan's ice cream bucket of homemade cookies, usually sugar, in the freezer.

So, just a little of what's been on my mind lately. The kids are still passing the illness around the house. Dylan had probably had a touch of the H1N1. He has been running a fever for most of the week off and on. And now has a bad cold. And he and Xavier both have or had the hand, foot, mouth virus. Poor X had like 4 or 5 bad sores in his mouth. I had to break down and give him liquids from a bottle today. I guess the sores are in the wrong place when he tries to drink from his cups it hurts. Hopefully with lots of hand washing and disinfecting the house, we are in the clear soon. I am just coming down with what seems to be a head cold. So hopefully I nipped it early. Hope you are all staying healthy.

15 Months and ........

2009-10-21T03:38:00.002-05:00

Well I will start with the fact that my little guy is 15 months old today. My oh my where has the time gone? I just cannot believe that he is not really a baby anymore. So what is he up to? Well, he is just into everything. As they say, he is a "shaker and a mover". He loves to run, dance, climb, and he is the biggest outdoors man that I have ever met. He loves to be outside. He is still really big into tractors and big trucks. He still has only 8 teeth in his mouth, and he does like to use them occasionally. He bites aggressively in his defense. He still has every inch of hair that he was born with, minus a trim enough to keep it out of his eyes. I am starting to think that he might be needing a hair cut soon. When you stretch out the curls, they are about middle of his shoulder blades. He talks up a storm, although, most of the time we don't know what he is saying. Some words we do understand are of course, mama, and dada, sissy, milk, tractor, yes, cracker, hmm, I can't think of any others at this time. So that is what Xavier is doing at 15 months.

Now, if you notice the time I am posting this, that is because we have been stricken with some illness at our house AGAIN. Dylan this time. He has been having a low grade temp. and tummy aches off and on since yesterday afternoon. And he got up about 2:30 this morning with a bad tummy ache. So I am sitting up with him and making sure he doesn't need anything. Gives me time to update the blog I guess. May have to hope for a nap later though. Somehow I am sure that will not happen as the girls will be getting out of school today at 11:30 for the end of the 9 weeks. So hopefully he will start to feel better soon, and no one else will be getting it.

And I will have to post pictures later, but the painter was here yesterday and got the wall going down our steps painted with the first coat anyway. And what a difference it made changing the color of that wall. I cannot wait to see the finished product. So the little projects we are trying to get done before the home tour are starting to fall into place. Now just to get it done and the decor up. But I thought I should at least wait til Halloween is over. Speaking of Halloween, Xavier is going to be a monkey, and the costume I got for him is so easy and cute. And how fitting. Can't wait til Halloween night.

So for now you are up to date on what is going on in the Boeckman house.

PRAYERS PRAYERS PRAYERS, PLEASE

2009-10-16T10:45:00.003-05:00

I am asking for prayers for a friend today. We have never met in person, but her husband and I have. He used to be a drug rep, that brought us lunch and drug samples, when I worked in the clinic in Onaga. Eileen Huffman is her name and she has been battling breast cancer since her son was about a year old in 2003. She also has two older daughters. She is having surgery today at 1:00 to remove her thyroid gland and other glands to try and control her calcium levels, which are too high. The cancer has spread to her bones and she is in a lot of pain. However this may help and it may do nothing. It is in God's hands, please pray that this is a miracle and gives her peace and time on Earth. Thanks.http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/eileenhuffman

Lazy Day

2009-10-14T21:24:00.002-05:00

Well yesterday I went to work for the better part of the day. Michael is just so busy and needed some help to get caught up. When I got home, Xavier was just not acting like himself. I picked him up to change his diaper and he was burning up. Took his temp and it was 103+. And he was breathing fast and just not acting right. So we ended up in the ER. He checked out OK other than the fever and a thick green mucous from his head. So he got a Rocephin shot and we were on our way. Today he started an antibiotic. We are starting him on a Pedisure a day also for a few extra calories, as he is such a little guy. He is a good eater when he feels well, but has had his bouts of not feeling well this year. And since he has not yet tripled his birth weight, and is so incredibly active, we are going to boost him with a few extra calories.

So today was a lazy day. Just laid around cuddling with my little man and catching up on missed sleep from last night. Did some laundry and dishes. Other than that, along with the cool wet weather, made a great lazy day. Xavier's fever did break during the night and stayed away til about 4:30 this afternoon and then it returned, but only 101, not the 103 that it had been.

So it looks like I will be home tomorrow with him as well. We will hopefully get a trip to the grocery store in since Syd needs a sack lunch for the Pumpkin Patch on Friday. But if he is still feverish, we will leave that up to daddy. I also need to work on statements, and get them out tomorrow.

The kids participated in The Living Rosary tonight at church and they all thought it was so neat. They explained it to me and it would have been neat to go, but I couldn't since Xavier was not feeling well.

We are working on getting some new paint done and a little bit of remodeling done. Our house is to be on the home tour for the Library in December and will be decorated for Christmas so we are hoping that it is all done by then.

Not much else to report. Maddy has taken a new interest in cleaning and helping me out today. She is wanting an allowance, so she has done a fair share of house work today. That is really nice beings I was a little on the lazy side today. It just goes to show she is growing up so fast.

We are headed to Nevada Mo this weekend for our Nanny's wedding. I am sure it is going to be a beautiful wedding and I cannot wait to hear all the music. It should be a good time I am sure. I will try to post pictures next week.

Oh Happy Fall!!

2009-10-07T14:40:00.004-05:00

Wow, I haven't posted since Xavier's 1st birthday. My how time flies. Well where do I start. Maybe I should start by telling you all "I'm sorry". I know many of you have been checking regularly to see what we have been up to. Well truth be known we have been terribly busy, but that is no excuse. So here it goes. As I sit here trying to pay bills, get statements out, clean off my desk, get the paperwork entered, I look at the blog and decide there is no time like the present to get up to date.

Xavier is my little helper each and every day. Not a day goes by that him and I are not together and I thank God for that. He even goes to "work" with me on the days when I do go and help Michael. Those days have been few and far between lately. Have had a lot to do I guess. He started walking when he was just a week or so past his first birthday. I have video I will try to dig out and get posted. He still has not had an "official haircut". We have trimmed the front to keep it out of his face, but the sides and back is long and curly. He eats table food with the rest of us. He is a little peanut and has yet to triple his birth weight. But he is a good eater for the most part, just very active. He loves to dance, any time anything with a beat comes on he is boogieing. He not only walks not but runs. He goes up and down the stairs. He has pottied in the potty 4 times, each one before his bath which he loves. He still only has eight teeth, which he likes to use I might add. He says mama, dada, milk, uh oh, bye bye, yes, no, hmmm that is all I can think of right now. He loves to be outside no matter the weather. He also throws huge tantrums when he doesn't get his way. He is a lover, he loves to give kisses and hugs and blow kisses. He recently learned to blow his nose, due to a nasty cold and ear infection unfortunately. He loves tractors, which is another word he says, a lot. I am so looking forward to what he learns to due next.

Sydnie is in Kindergarten this year. She is off to a great start. She loves her teacher and loves school. She can write her name first and last. Is reading about 30 words or so. Knows all of her colors and shapes. Can count and write to 100 or past. She has homework every night and doesn't care, she just does it. She is my little helper. Whatever I might be doing, she wants to help and the same with her daddy. When he is going out to the farm to do anything, she wants to go along. She will be turning 6 in December.

Dylan is in 4th grade this year. He is loving school and of course his teacher. Nothing too new to report on him. He is still in the gifted program and has a new teacher in there this year. He started football again this year back in Sept. His team has not won a game, but they play hard and have fun. They scored their first touchdown last week, and it was #25, Dylan, who got to carry the ball in. How exciting! Before long he will be starting basketball. He wants to do gymnastics terribly bad and with his latest accomplishment of doing a back flip on his own, I think we may have to enroll next year. His grades are a reflection of the smart little or not so little boy that he is.

Madison is in the 5th grade this year. She recently made a big accomplishment in getting both tubes out of her ears. She also got her spring jet appliance off her teeth the other day ( just in time for Halloween ha). She is turning into such a beautiful young lady. She went to her first boy girl party on Friday. And she has now informed us that her and a boy are "dating" ha. She started band this year and is playing the clarinet. She is progressing nicely on it. She is still a book worm. And her grades also reflect quite nicely that she is a little smarty. She just has a bit of trouble turning things in once and a while. hmm She is wanting to start babysitting and does a great job with Xavier.

Michael and I try to keep to keep up with the kids and the business and still find time for each other. We recently participated in the go pink 5k walk in Sabetha. It is a fundraiser for cancer patients and families. We walked in memory of our family members who have had cancer, including my Dad, Aunt Patty, Grandparents, and cousin. This Saturday we are doing a 5 k for the coins for cause walk in Seneca that is also for cancer patients and families. We have a birthday party to attend and a party at a friends, along with the Cow Creek Opry. Next weekend we have a wedding to attend. We have not even found time to fit in a K State game yet. Michael is incredibly busy which is a blessing due to the economy. So many are looking for work, and yet we are at our busiest yet. Currently we are in some stage of about 25 houses. I try to help when I can, and keep up here and with the kids. Currently that consists of Tuesday night football practice, Wednesday night religion, and odds and ends the other nights, with football games on Sundays. Tomorrow night we happen to have tickets to the stage production of the Wizard of Oz. This is a reward to the kids for their grades. We have made it a point to reward them with something for the whole family for good grades. So as you can see we have been busy. I leave you with a few pictures. Hope you enjoy and I plan to keep this up as much as possible and do apologize for the delay.

Where to Start??

2009-07-22T19:38:00.002-05:00

Well, it has been an extremely busy and fast paced summer so far. Sydnie and Dylan played soft/baseball this summer. So that meant a ballgame 4 nights a week. They both did great. Dylan's team finished last night taking first place in the tournament. I am glad to have it over for another year.

We went on vacation back in June. We left on the 18th and returned on the 27. We had a great time while gone. The ride out to Virginia was definitely not one we want to experience again. Madison was on an antibiotic for strep throat and wouldn't you know it the day we left, Syd and Xavier, fevers and sore throat. So needless to say it was a very long trip. We ended up staying over night in Ill. Our plan was to drive straight through, but Xavier was not eating, drinking or sleeping so we stopped for about 5 hours of rest. Then back on the road. We arrived at my aunt's house about 10 o'clock the following night. The mountains we drove through we awesome. While there we visited the National Aquarium in Baltimore, went into DC and saw the Washington Monument, Lincoln Memorial, the White House, Capital building, the Pentagon and 9-11 memorial. We went to the air and space museum, and the National Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception. We rode the Metro into DC and yes we were on it the day of the crash. However not on that train thank goodness. We did however have to ride the red line the following day to the Cathedral. We had a great time while we were there. And the ride home was much better with healthy children. We drove straight through and it took about 21 hours. We arrived home on Sat the 27 about 6:30 am. That night we went down to Havensville to their 4th of July celebration and the kids loved it.

Also on July 11 we had our annual 4th of July party. It is put on by the business as an appreciation for all our friends, family, contractors, and sales reps. It is a good time to be had by all. We had a great day for it and had a great turn out. And I must say the fireworks were the best show yet.

I am still working 3 days a week and have a nanny coming. Her last week is next week and I am not looking forward to that yet. I am enjoying my time out and having some adult conversation. The kids are loving her being here and enjoying summer.

Mr Xavier has turned one. Yesterday was his big day. We are celebrating his birthday on Saturday. So what is he up to these days? Well, he is crawling like a maniac, which he has been doing for quite some time. He is taking a few tiny baby steps, but has no real interest in walking. He will go from a sitting position to a standing position without help. He has 7 teeth currently and has another in the works. He is eating table food and loving it. He is on whole milk and drinking it from a sippy cup. He had tubes in his ears in June and they really have seemed to help him. He is trying very hard to talk, but at this time, mama, Dada, and no no are about all we understand. He waves goodbye. He loves to give out kisses and hugs. He still is very attached to his blankie, but is doing very well with leaving his Binky in his bed and only having it at bedtime. So now you are caught up on where he is at at1 year.

I do have so many pictures to post but tonight is not the right time to download them and put them up, so I will try to get to that tomorrow if you can handle the anticipation of some very cute kids. haha

Happy Birthday to My Big Guy!!

2009-07-21T22:20:00.002-05:00

WOW, where in the world has the last year gone? I cannot believe that one year ago today we were celebrating Xavier's birth. And what a year it has been for him. There is so much I have to tell you about what he is now doing (beings I have neglected the blog for awhile). And I do promise to do so tomorrow. I will make time to fill you in on what we have been doing. I just wanted to be sure and give a shout out to the world to let them know that my baby is turning one today.

We just got home from Dylan's Peewee baseball tournament championship game and Corning took first place. Way to go team. More tomorrow, I promise.

Real Quick

2009-06-10T22:20:00.002-05:00

Just wanted to let everyone know we are going in in the morning to have tubes put in Xavier's ears. He just continues to have problems with ear infections and fluid. And last week he failed his hearing test. So even though it is a minor surgery, please keep him in your prayers in the morning. And that he will have no complications with the anesthesia.

I will try to do a more thorough post tomorrow to update everyone on what is going on in our world.

Good Night!

I Need a Nanny!!

2009-05-14T07:28:00.003-05:00

First of all, before I even start this I want all of you to know that this sounds like complaining, but it is actually venting. It is just something I am going to have to get off my chest before I drive myself crazy. So here it goes, are you ready for this?

I know there are plenty of mothers out there that go to work every day and would love to have my stay at home job. And yes there are days when I am so glad that I don't have to get up early and get ready to go to work. However, more and more, I am wishing that I had a job, outside of the house, at least something part time. I never, and I mean never, have anytime to myself. When I go to the bathroom, I ususally have someone following me. When I take a shower, Xavier is usually on the floor watching me, more so that I know where he is and what he is doing. I just wish for one morning, I could just worry about me. And I am not wanting that to sound selfish, for I love my children and I am so blessed that God chose me to be their mother, but more for the fact of my husband. Michael gets up at 5:30 in the morning with no care in the world other than what he needs for the day. He eats his breakfast in peace and quiet, and then heads off to get ready for work. He has no idea who doesn't want to get up in the morning and get ready for school because they didn't go to bed on time the night before. He doesn't have to listen to the bickering in the morning because the kids are tired (still from not getting to bed on time the night before((I'll get to that in a minute)). He doesn't care, at all, what clothes is or isn't clean for the kids for school. He doesn't have to ramble on every morning about what there is for breakfast food, so that each one is satisfied and goes to school with a full tummy. He doesn't even ask to see there school work, or ask to see their book bags, in which I have to sign Dylan's planner each night. Then as they are finally off on the bus, he does not have the monotony of doing the same ol' housework every day. I never feel like I have accomplished anything, because what I do today is still there tomorrow. At least on his job, he might do the same thing (wire a house) but at least he has the sense of accomplishment, as he moves on to a different house. I never feel that. Then while the dishwasher is running, or the washing machine is washing, and I have finished vacuuming, dusting, and cleaning toilets, I still have payroll to do. Or the book work that is piling up (haven't entered any receipts since the first of the year, and I am going to start to catch up on them before I fall even farther behind), or the statements he brought me late last night then need sent out so that we get paid. Or the contractor that owes us thousands, and has not paid since Jan, so I have to make that phone call to the attorney and send him the paperwork so that we can eventually get our money. Oh hang on, the washer just completed, let me go hang out those clothes. Wow, the grass really grew up over night, I will have to get it mowed that afternoon. Now back to the bookwork, let's see dang it, I forgot to pay bills, better get that done. While I'm on the computer, I think I will check the kids grades. Incomplete, what, how did that happen, I will have to remember to ask about that when the kids get home. Now where was I, oh yes, paying those bills. Hmmm, what should we have for dinner tonight, something that everyone will like, and have no complaints. Xavier, did you dirty your diaper? Whew, that was a stinker, off to the garage trash. Oh trash, another thing, better get it ready to go out tomorrow morning. Where is all the time going, time to get lunch for Xavier and watch for Sydnie's bus. Now to make lunch for Syd and get X down for a nap. Still need to get those statements done and finish those bills. Well, now that Xavier is down for his nap, I had better go get the lawnmower greased up and get started on that grass. While mowing I notice that the flowers, trees, and garden are in need of water. Mow around the garden and get the hose going on it. Sydnie comes out of the house with the phone, take the phone call, have to quit and look something up for Michael on the computer, now back to the mowing. Well, now that my afternoon is shot, and the kids will be home soon, Xavier is up and oh yeah, I still haven't laid any meat out of the freezer for dinner tonight. What should we have? Now does anyone have any homework that needs done? Run someone to ball practice. Still mowing the yard. Get Xavier fed dinner and get dinner on for the rest of us. Finish that load of laundry in the washer, and get dinner on the table. Now off to get the little ones in the tub for their bath, read a story (maybe if we get time) and ready for bed. Still have those bids to get in the computer that Michael is working on while I give the kids baths, only to come out and find him playing Mafia Wars on the laptop (a facebook thing). Wow really, he was at work all day, came home and got to ride out to the pasture and count cows, to come home and play on the computer instead of having the print ready so that I am not working on bids at 10:00. Hmmm, did he even think once about the kids, or I , or what needed done around the house today? NOO!! All the mean while, I still am getting the older kids ready for bed. Sent them off to their rooms only 20 minutes behind, bedtime is 8:30 not 9:00. While I am now rocking and feeding X, I hear them goofing off downstairs, really, Michael, can you go and tell the kids they need to get to sleep. Put Xavier to bed, finish the laundry and cleaning up after dinner as I haven't done that yet. Now are you ready to work on bids? Do the bids and by now I am exhausted, so I am going to bed, guess I will work on the statements and bookwork tomorrow. But will I accomplish any thing tomorrow?? We'll see!!

So now let me explain a little. Michael used to be such a big help to me. He ALWAYS gave the evening baths. I at least used to get 5 or 10 minutes to myself in the evenings. Now, never. He rarely, but sometimes, give the kids their baths. He is soo, soo, addicted to crap on facebook, Mafia Wars, and Texas Hold 'Em. And yes I do play Texas Hold 'Em as well, usually when the kids are tucked into bed, and I am tuckered out for the night. Not when they are still up and need to get things done and off to bed. It seems like the more I do, the more I am just expected to do. I would just love to be able to not worry about what needs done, or who has what going on tomorrow after school, or what to cook for dinner, or WHATEVER, for just once. Sometimes I even feel like he is a kid. I have asked him several times to clean up a cooler that he used for some beverages when they built fence. It was in the garage, and he managed to get the water and cans out of it and then put it in the hall bath to wash up. I eventually, after asking several times for him to clean it up, moved it to the front door step to get it out of my way in the bathroom. Now I have again asked him to get it cleaned up and put away and it still sits on the front door step. This bothers me most because if that were the kids, it would have been thrown away long ago. They don't get that many chances. I just get tired of nagging, but if he would just do it I wouldn't have to. And I am NOT doing it. That is what I am talking about the more I do for him, the more he expects, and the less he does. I am not wonder women. I would like to think that I am, however, I am not. Okay, this is a lot longer than I had hoped, but maybe I feel a little better to get that off my chest. I do love to be at home most of the time, but sometimes, I think if I had to work outside of the house, I would get a lot more help here at the house. So this is just venting, something to get it off my chest, I am trying not to complain, as I know it could be a lot worse.

Now on to the kids. Sydnie has only 2 days of school left, then off to Kindergarten in the fall. WOW! And the other kids have 5 1/2 days left. I cannot believe it is almost summer. We have been working hard on getting the pool put in the back yard, it will be so nice. Xavier is crawling and climbing and trying hard to stand up on his own. He is loving the ability to be outside. He is fascinated by the cows. He still has only 4 teeth, but is really loving the finger foods he is able to eat. I am going to try and post some photos and maybe a video later, probably tomorrow. For today, it is off to get the statements out in the mail, and then mow this afternoon, hopefully. Hope you all have a great day.

Where Did We Go Wrong?

2009-04-30T10:21:00.002-05:00

You know, I have been recapping the whole illness thing we have going on. As many of you know, Xavier was in the hospital overnight last Saturday/Sunday. And Syd, Monday and Tuesday. They mainly were hospitalized for dehydration secondary to nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea. As it goes, Xavier had the diarrhea since Monday of last week and intermittent vomiting. I took him to the Dr on Wednesday, and we thought it would pass but did do some lap tests on him. Turns our he had rota virus. No big deal, a normal childhood disease, which most children have had by age 5. Usually the most critical in children under the age of 2. And usually mild symptoms in older children and adults. Well, Sunday morning Michael called me at the hospital and wanted to know when I would be home for shift change. WHAT? He said he was up all night with Syd. She continued to not be able to keep anything down until Monday so I then took her to the dr. We assumed she just had a good case of the stomach flu. Really no diarrhea, just vomiting and nausea. We came home on Tuesday afternoon, and she has had the "squirts" since. So I kept her home from school again today. Michael was also sick on Tuesday and yet today is not feeling the best yet.

So now on to what I was thinking. My kids have never really been in daycare, and have been extremely healthy kids for the most part. And I was thinking back to last summer when Syd was sick with the Crypto. Where did she get that? It is usually caught from a public water source, like pools. We hadn't even been to a public pool when she got it. And not only had we not been to a public pool, we hadn't been a pool at all. She was down for a good 2 weeks with that, and to this day thinks she is a vegetarian because of it. She hasn't really eaten meat very well since.

Syd had the flu in November right around Thanksgiving. She was sick and it lasted only about a day, but came back about a week later. That was when she was vomiting so often that she got so worn out we had to take her to the dr. Maddy then had the flu in Jan.

Then Syd's asthma got really out of control in February. We had it so well controlled for 2-3 years now. What happened? She ended up in the hospital twice with that episode.

Then back in Feb./March I got pneumonia and mono. All at the same time and ended up with a pleural effusion.

And now this? What is going on? Why are we getting all these illnesses? I am not complaining. I do know that it could be a lot worse. But it just seems odd. Up until the last year, we had a few minor illnesses, colds, and 24 hour flu bugs here and there, but nothing like this.

So enough about that, I am just hoping for a good healthy summer, if it ever gets here. It is raining again today. We are so wet right now. I got most of the yard mowed yesterday in between showers. Our garden is mostly under water. We really need the sun to shine for a while to dry us out a little. We will probably be begging for rain in July. A quick story about Syd this morning. I was singing "Rain, rain, go away". And looked out and said "my, it's pouring" and Syd looked at me and said, "God is spitting on us!" Ha ha. "Mama, why is God spitting on us?" And I told her he must not have liked something that we did, but explained that we should not spit on people, even if they did something we didn't like. And she said, "Probably he doesn't like us, he likes the people in China."? What? Where did that come from? I just laughed and let it go.

Not much else going on. We have our soccer tournament this weekend. And Dylan and Syd start base/softball the end of May. Practices have already started. Won't be long and summer break will be here. Syd gets to go to Kindergarten all day tomorrow and next Friday. It is transition for next year, so they know what to expect.

I still have pictures I want to post, but am posting this from the laptop and the pictures are on my pc, so I will try to get to that later. Right now I better get back to my cleaning. Seems as though I am a couple weeks behind, and with all the illness, have tons of laundry. I also have been trying to sanitize and disinfect everything in hopes the rest of us will stay well.

Happy Birthday Deagan Michael Ronnebaum

2009-04-23T23:22:00.003-05:00

Well today was the big day. My little nephew made his arrival into the world around 11:30 this morning. He weighed 8# 1oz. and was 19" long. Both mom and babe are doing great. When I ask Derek, the now big brother, were he was going to live and I ask if he could stay at my house, I was told it was his baby and going to HIS house. haha He is too cute, Derek that is. And Deagan is not to shabby himself. They are such a cute family, full of D boyz. Love you Kara and congrats on the new little guy.

Sunny Days and Still Sick Kids UGH!

2009-04-21T23:03:00.002-05:00

Well the weather is beautiful. I mowed the yard for the first time this season today. I love to mow when the sun is shining and it is not too windy. The fresh air is just refreshing.

Xavier has a stomach bug. He had diarrhea yesterday after his nap and into the evening. And he wasn't real excited to eat as dinner time. Then about 8:00 or so, he vomited. He was pretty tired and worn out. He hadn't vomited for a couple hours to at 2 this morning we went to bed. He slept til about 8 this morning. Acted a little better today, just really tired. He cat napped most of the day and had a fever most of the day as well. I had taken him outside to get some fresh air after his really long nap, and he was acting much better. Like he had a little energy. Then around 6:30 I brought him in and was going to give him a little cereal for dinner tonight. He had had some Popsicles, water and a little milk (formula) today, and it all stayed down. I had just mixed the cereal and he got sick again. I tried to feed him a few bites, but he was not interested. And he was acting really tired again. So I rocked him for awhile. I needed to get a shower from mowing the yard, so I put him on a blanket in the kitchen where Michael was and went to take my shower. Well before I even got in I heard him vomit again and went to Michael's rescue to help him clean it up. He was busy making dinner. So since then X has been really unhappy. Not feeling well. He and I got in some great bonding time in the rocking chair, but I feel so bad for him. He is still running a fever, but the Tylenol didn't stay down. So I guess we will wait and see what the morning brings and I think if he is still ill, I will make him an apt with the dr. I wish all this illness would just go away. You would think with spring weather, that we would be getting out of all the bugs. Hoping for a better day tomorrow and that no one else gets it.

We Are Still Here, Livin' Life in the Fastlane

2009-04-16T09:19:00.003-05:00

WOW! Where do I start?? Hmmmm. Well since my last post, we had a mini vacation and are leaving today on another. Xavier's first top tooth popped through (Monday April 6). Soccer is in full swing. What am I forgetting. Oh, Easter has come and gone. Wow any thing else. Oh yes, Madison did a great job on her state assessment tests at school. She got 95 math and reading, both exemplary, and 91 science, also exemplary and according to her the highest score in her class. YES!!

So the first weekend in April we headed to St Joe for the National Federation Bull Riding finals. We have done this for the last 8 years I believe, maybe 9. Anyway, a good friend of ours rides bulls in this circuit. Way to go Seth. He rode Thursday and Friday nights, but wasn't able to hold on Saturday night. I am not sure of his place, but he did place in the finals. Dylan was excited to get his shirt from his ride being the highest of the night on Thursday night. We are going to put it in a shadow box on his wall next to Seth's photo.

Xavier, like I said has his 3rd tooth. He also has been battling with an ear infection. He goes in for a recheck this morning. And he will be having his, drum roll please, 9 month visit today also:( At least there will be no shots. YEAH! He is pulling himself up to furniture and walls and gates and legs and whatever he can get ahold of. And is starting to let go. Also he is starting to show signs of wanting to walk if he is holding on. He also mastered crawling all the way up the basement steps on Tuesday afternoon. He just continues to grow and develop and it seems to be happening too quickly.

Sydnie had started soccer. This was a little bit scary for her at first, but now she loves it. She cannot wait for the next soccer game/practice. Dylan is also playing soccer and like always is so competitive.

So a few quick cute stories. Last week we went out to eat at a local bar. They have like $2.00 cheeseburgers on Thursdays, and while there some friends came in. They are actually the parents of one of our employees. And Terry ask Sydnie "where is you pretty pink cowboy hat?"

Syd: (And I am sure you can hear the attitude) "You mean cowGIRL hat?"

Terry: "Oh yeah, cowGIRL hat?"

Too cute!

And the other day after school, Syd was sitting on the floor watching TV and Xavier and I were in the rocking chair and he was getting a bottle. Well, Syd tooted, and instantly she turned and looked at us and said, "Who was that?" And she was so innocent about it. Little turkey.

So I leave you with photos and video. And if I don't get them all posted I will try to do it later on today.

I am not able to figure out how to turn the video, so I guess you have to watch it sideways;-}

Okay, I guess the photos are not able to download right now and I am out of time trying, so I will have to post the pictures next week. We are headed to Hannibal MO this afternoon. So I will post pictures when I return.

On another note, we had Xavier's Dr apt this morning and the ears are clear. He is 28" long (48%) and 19# 4oz. (28%). No shots today, but next time, at one year, he will get 5, yes 5, shots. OUCHY! Until next week........

Oh the Little Smarty Pants!! Way to Go!!

2009-03-25T09:30:00.002-05:00

First and foremost, Madison and Dylan put forth all their efforts in school and it showed. Dylan got 100% in math on his State Assessment testing!! Way to go bud! See what happens when you try! That means 3 days of testing and his didn't miss a beat. He also got 95% on his reading assessment, which according to the state is also exemplary!

Madison's report card for the 3rd nine weeks is awesome! She not only brought home straight A's, she brought home A+'s in math, science, social studies, and spelling! Way to go Maddy. She is taking her state assessments still. I believe they are done with reading and she also brought home a 95%, I think, and I know it was exemplary, whatever it was! Way to go Maddy, you have really put forth all the effort this year and it shows. Keep it up.

And now to mr Xavier. Over the weekend, (for my record March 20) he learned to pull himself to a standing position on the furniture or whatever he can get a hold of. He did reach the milestone of 8 months over the weekend also. His only problem now is once he stands up he can't always figure out how to get down!! It is so cute. I will try to get some video and post it. He is also saying Da Da, Ma Ma, Ba Ba. He sometimes waves bye-bye. He is eating all baby foods. Likes most except green beans, and broccoli and carrots. We are still waiting on his top teeth to come in, they are close. He is crawling all over and into everything. It all just is happening so fast. At this pace, he will definitely be walking before he is a year old:-(

That is about it for now. Dylan and Syd are staring soccer this week with their first game on April 4. It should be an exciting season.

2009-03-18T17:11:00.002-05:00

Where Have We Been

2009-03-18T16:13:00.003-05:00

SPRING IS NEAR!! WE WELCOME HOLLIS THE FIRST OF THE SEASON, 03/17/09.

Well, I do apologize for the delay in posting. I can't believe it has been almost 3 weeks since my last post. So what do I have to share?

First and foremost I guess, I had been under the weather. I am feeling somewhat better now, still continuing to heal. I finally went to the Dr on the 6th. Only to get the diagnosis of pneumonia (which I suspected). She changed the antibiotic I was on again, this was the 3rd round, and gave my an injection of Rocephin. If I was not feeling better by Monday I was to return for lab and chest xray. So Monday rolled around and I was not feeling much better, still had a lot of pain in my chest and cough. So I waited it out and on Tuesday went for the lab and xray. Not only did I get the pneumonia, I had mono as well. Well that explained alot. Why I seemed so drained all the time. And on top of that the chest xray showed a pleural effusion, which is fluid in the lungs, which is not uncommon with the extended illness I had had. If you remember it started back on Feb 17th. So tomorrow I go back for a repeat chest xray to make sure the fluid is gone. So enough about me.

The kids have been on spring break all week. They were also out of school on last Friday due to the Centralia girls and boys teams going to state basketball. Both teams took 3rd. Way to go Panthers. We do know that spring is very near. We just love this time of year. Yesterday the weather was perfect, 80 degrees out and not a lot of wind, a plus for Kansas.

So how do I know spring is near, other than the weather? Well, let me show you. This is our first little sign that we are getting into spring.

"Hollis" was our first calf to be born this year out on the farm. There are several calves out there that belong to family, but he is our first. Grandpa called and we arrived out at the farm just in time to witness his birth. This takes me back a few years to when Maddy was about 4 or so. She wanted to be a Vet. So the arrival of Spring came and with it calving season. We took her out to help with one of the deliveries, and low and behold, the sac didn't break around the calves mouth when it was born. So to those of you that are city folk, you have to break the sac and pull it back so the calf can breathe or it will drown. So Michael reaches down and breaks the sac, and the fluid comes out, the calf coughs, and Madison said "I don't want to be a Vet anymore." lol Just instantaneously. But is has grown on the kids now, they don't mind. Seeing Michael shoulder deep inside the cow to pull calves is not uncommon, and bothers no one anymore.

I have video to post of Xavier crawling. Once he mastered it, he went from crawling to running on all fours. He is just a little too mobile. He had his first tumble down the steps the other day. I happened to be there so I just let him go down the first 3 to try and teach him he would get hurt if he went near them. I have a baby gate on order, but had to special order one because of the width of our steps. He is also pulling himself up on his knees. He tries to get up to his feet, and has accomplished it, only in his crib. So the other day he pulled himself up to his walker, and slipped and bumped his face on the tray, so he got his first shiner.

Sydnie had decided to become the big girl we all know she is. We have been working with her to stay dry at night, and using the bed alarm. This worked very well for Dylan so we tried it with her. She does not like the alarm. It scares her. But it is working to an extent. I think because she does not want to wear the alarm, she has been dry more often the last week than wet. She is so proud of herself and so are we. Hopefully, we will continue and not have to buy anymore pullups. YEAH!

Other than that, pretty much the same ol stuff here. I will try to be better with keeping you all up to date, but it will be a challenge with the weather turning so nice. To my mom I would like to wish her a Happy Belated birthday. Of course, I told her on time also, but on here it is late.

Prayers for the Neel Family

2009-03-01T19:16:00.004-06:00

It is a very sad time for a very close friend of mine. And it hits very close to home. Her mama has been battling cancer courageously for over 2 years now and has been doing extremely well. In the last week, they go bed news that it was spreading and fast. And the Good Lord be with her she passed peacefully today. It will be very tough on the Neel family to be with out Shirley I am sure. She was a mother of eighteen children. And seemed to be able to not only work two jobs to provide for all of them, but have time for all of them and the grandchildren as well. So here is to Whitney and all the Neel family, you are all in our hearts, and we pray that you are all able to find comfort and peace knowing that your mom is in a wonderful peaceful place. Reunited with your brother. And I also pray that you are all able to find a new "normal" without her. It is a tough road ahead and some days it is hard to fight through it as everything will remind you of her in some way, but I know that you all can do it. I pray that you all find peace and comfort in your lives. My Sympathies are with the whole family.

Even More Pictures

2009-02-24T21:33:00.002-06:00

Madison's funky hat she got at the circus. This was her expression while Casey was singing happy birthday to her at the soup supper in Havensville.
Red Robin singing Happy Birthday to Madison.

Diggin into the ice cream sundae that they brought her at Red Robin.

Little X sitting up by himself like a big boy.

Dylan's basketball team.

More Pictures

2009-02-24T20:55:00.002-06:00

My sickies. Syd not happy in the croup tent.

Like puting her in a big bubble.

Xavier one night when he was not feeling well, fell asleep in his walker.

Look at those puppy dog eyes. She was really not feeling well. But the next day she looked even worse. Dark, dark circles formed under her eys.

As you can see, Xavier was just as happy as ever at the hospital.

The pictures I have been promising

2009-02-24T19:45:00.003-06:00

The kids riding the elephant. Syd up front, with Dylan and Maddy behind her.

And Again.

Just some of the performers, on balls juggling.

Silly clown.

Trapeze Artists.

Happy Birthday to You, You Live at the Zoo

2009-02-21T21:33:00.002-06:00

You know the rest, you look like a monkey and you act like one too!! Today is Madison's birthday. She is TEN, yes TEN years old. I can hardly believe it. I can remember back 10 years ago so well. There was a train derailment in Onaga, and coal was spilled all over. We also had a healthy snow on Feb 21st, 1999, or early morning on the 22nd. Michael and I had a bottle of wine out in the snow from our suite at the hospital. Of course, it was more for him.

We took Maddy to the Red Robin last night for her birthday, and then off to the circus. She, Dylan, and Syd seemed to have a really good time. They got to ride the elephants at the circus. I do have some pictures to post and hope to make time to do that tomorrow.

Michael and I worked on getting the shelving up in all of our closets today. This has been a long time coming. We have been our house now for almost 5 years, and it will be great to actually have lots of storage in our closets.

So we took a break and headed to Havensville to the community building for dinner tonight. They had a fundraiser, soup dinner, to raise funds to make a handicapped bathroom in their building. While there, Casey Jordan, Tanner's (Michael's employee) sister and the band played and sang happy birthday to Maddy. She was just a little embarrassed. For anyone who has not been to Havensville to the Cow Creek Opry, and hear Casey and all the other local talent sing, I would highly recommend it. They are great. And for about $20, you can eat, and see the concert, and that is the whole family. Great, cheap family entertainment. Their next show is March 28th. And the Legend show that they put on, where they dress and act like the entertainers is May 2nd. We cannot wait to see these shows again.

So I promise to try and make time tomorrow to put up the photos that I have been promising. Oh, and I almost forgot, Xavier is 7 months old today also. My how time flies. We will talk more about him tomorrow also.

So to Maddy:
Happy Birthday baby. We love you so much. You have grown into quite the young lady. We are so proud of you and the qualities you have. You have so much compassion for others, and determination and endurance in you. You can do anything you put your mind to and you have proven that. You are such a big help to me at home, and sometimes I am sorry that I don't let you help me more. I am going to try and let you do more to help me out and let you take on some of the responsibility that you want to have. I guess it is just hard for me to let you grow up. But I guess there is no stopping it. Daddy and I are so proud to say we are your parents. Keep setting the examples you do now and strive to reach the goals you set in life. We love you!

Momma and Daddy.

UUGGGGHHHHHHH

2009-02-18T12:58:00.002-06:00

Well, I am sure you are all waiting on me to post some pictures that I promised. I am hoping to get it done soon. I also want to get a video of Xavier starting to crawl, actually on all fours posted. So hopefully I will find time soon.

I am not sure where to start. So when I left off, we had just gotten home from the hospital and Syd appeared to be on the uphill side of things. Well, she is still not feeling 100% better. She is very clingy and wants to be held. She has a really good cold going on now. However, she is much improved from Friday.

Now on to Xavier. He started with a cough and cold on Saturday. Sunday he was a little fussy, but not bad. However, Sunday night he did not sleep well at all. He was up most of the night. I noticed he was still rubbing his ears. So Monday we headed off to the Dr again. Yep, both ears were infected. And there is a good possibility that he has RSV. The Dr said we were going to give him a shot. And even if he had RSV at this time, we wouldn't treat him any different, so we didn't test for it. For those of you that have seen the test for RSV done before, you will understand. For those of you whom haven't. They take this little tiny hose (about the size of a pencil lead) and stick it way up into their nose. It is hooked to a syringe with sterile saline in it. They inject the saline into the nose and withdraw it back in to the syringe. It is no fun at all. So that is why I opted to not run the test. If he were to get worse, I was to bring him in. Well, he is not sleeping the best still, and up until today was not eating much at all. Only 16 oz yesterday. About half of what he normally eats. Less than that on Monday. He has been extremely fussy. Doesn't really know what he wants. So lets pray that he is on the uphill today. He has already taken 12 oz of milk. And ate his lunch. Right now he is resting.

So yesterday I went to KC to a trade show with my sis. We had a good time. It was great to get away and get a small break. Love you Sis! So I had this tickle in my throat all day and kept coughing because of the tickle. Now this morning, my chest hurts bad. I have a bit of a headache. And a terrible cough. So now that makes 3 of us.

Maddy told me this morning that she had a bit of a sore throat. And I heard her coughing a bit through the night. She is not complaining yet, but somehow I have a feeling it won't be long. And that makes 4.

And now Dylan. He has been getting a bit of a cough the last few days. But this morning, he woke up with hives. With Dylan that is a sure sign that a fever and illness is on the way. It is just a way that his body deals with it and it is a warning sign for us. So that makes 5.

NOW, Michael chose not to get a flu shot this year. And I will be really ticked if he is the only one who doesn't get this crud. I really hope for his sake he doesn't get it. It seems to be able to get the best of you.

So, we are all going to take it easy and try to get to feeling better. My hospital bill is definitely going to be on the rise this month. With Syd's meds, and being in the hospital for 2 days, and all of us being on antibiotics, and all the dr visits, it will take a toll on the ole checkbook. So I am going to try to get the energy and time to get the pictures and video uploaded soon.

Have I mentioned I am ready for Spring? Only a few times. I hope all of you are staying healthy and staying away from all this crud.

Oh So Glad to Be Home

2009-02-14T12:27:00.002-06:00

Oh, what a Friday the 13th!?? I didn't even realize it was Friday the 13th until they mentioned it on the radio. I headed out to Wamego to get my hair done early yesterday morning. I had taken Xavier over to my moms for the morning. I was looking forward to a little me time. Something I hadn't had in quite a while. So I was just pulling into the parking lot at the salon, and my cell rang. It was Syd's teacher and she was quite anxious. Syd could not quit coughing. She had tried a drink and given her her inhaler and it just wasn't cutting it. So I called my mom to have her run over and get her. I continued with my appointment, and ran a quick errand into Manhattan. And then on my way home. Got to my mom's, picked up Syd and headed back to the Dr. They tried a Xopenex treatment with no relief and so off we went to be admitted into the hospital once again. She coughed most of the afternoon and into the night until about 12:30 this morning. Then that pretty much stopped it all. She has been good ever since. We came home around 9:30 this morning. We are going to stay on our meds, and hope that we are out of the woods. This has probably been the worst flair up that she has ever had. It is a little scary. She looked terrible last night. She had dark circles under her eyes, she just looked worn out from coughing so much. But today, well, she acted like Syd. She is back to eating a little bit, and hopefully will get some energy back and keep headed in the right direction.

Also Happy Valentines Day to all. And to my hubby, thanks for the flowers. And thanks for cleaning up the house. I love you and all that you do for me.

I have some pictures of Syd from Thursday in the croup tent and I will try to get them posted later today or tomorrow. I am just too tired right now, and have this humongous headache.

Asthma and Ear Aches

2009-02-12T10:22:00.003-06:00

Well, today is Thursday. I am happy that it is close to the weekend. The weather today is supposed to be in the fifty's. We had 2 inches of quickly melting snow yesterday. It melted as fast as it came.
I took Xavier to the Dr office yesterday. He has had this lingering upper respiratory thing going on. I thought he might have an ear infection, but just wasn't sure. He was such a goo happy baby. So yes, he did have an ear infection in left ear. With all of the other kids, you always knew when they have an ear infection. They would not sleep at night and would cry and cry. He didn't do that. I would just catch him occasionally rubbing his ear. So he is on an anti biotic for his ear.

And wouldn't you know it. I made him the appointment, and Syd woke up yesterday morning with her asthma flared up. She coughed all day long. They did listen to her in the clinic and said she wasn't wheezy. So home we went. I was up with Syd until about 11:30. I had exhausted every resource. So today I called the office and talked to our awesome nurse practitioner. She agreed to bringing Syd down for an outpatient stay in the croup tent. This always seems to help her in a short period of time. She also has to get a shot of Rocephin. So when I get home I will put up some pictures of her in her tent. Hopefully this will be a short 8 hours or so and we will be home in time for dinner tonight.

In the mean time, I am hoping this is the end of the illnesses for us, but for some reason I am not counting on it.

Odds and Ends

2009-02-09T20:04:00.005-06:00

A very belated Happy Birthday goes out to my dad. He would have turned 54 on Feb 2nd. I wanted to post but was holding out for reasons I am still not mentioning.

Also Happy Birthday today to my brother in law, Brent.

Xavier wants to say a few things.jjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj b gb yt b bnbbnb nb y 6 b

Who knows what that means, but it made him happy to help out. He is getting so big and growing so fast. He has had so much progress since I last posted. He is sitting unsupported now. He is crawling? Well more like scooting. He gets up on his hands and knees, but mainly he army crawls or pulls himself with his arms. He has said "mama" a couple times. He thinks he needs the laptop, my keyboard, the phone, the remote, his spoons, whatever else he can get his hands on. He is very much so mama's boy. He is always wanting my attention. He likes to blow zerbers. He thinks he has to try what is on my plate even if he has already eaten his food. On and on and on. He is just growing up.

He is getting over a terrible cold right now. I actually have an appointment for him to go to the Dr tomorrow. He has been running a low grade fever the last couple afternoons. He really doesn't act sick other than maybe sleeping a little more. But who wouldn't with the cold he has? I think he is just such a happy baby, that he wouldn't let on even if he didn't feel well. So we will see what happens tomorrow.

Syd has had a bad cold as well, and of course, that means her asthma was flared up. She is finally on the uphill side of things. She had the stomach flu last Sunday, but it was short lived. Otherwise, she is just Syd.

Dylan played his last basketball game on Saturday. The lost, but they were playing against 4th graders. Dylan seems to have a bit of a cold now also, but it isn't too bad.

Madison is looking forward to her big "10" birthday that is coming up. She is so excited to be turning 2 digits!!? LOL She had the stomach flu a while back and then Thursday she had a bought of diarrhea. Otherwise, she is just enjoying school.

As for Michael and I. Well we have been battling colds also. Michael had one a while back and seems to be having a hard time getting completely over the mucus. Mine has just come on and I wake in the morning with lots of mucus and sore throat, and headache. But by middle of the morning I am feeling lots better. Just having a hard time getting rid of it. I also had the joy of getting the diarrhea. But it is better now also. Hopefully, (I hate to even say this) we are all over it.

We took the kids to the bull riding in Manhattan the last Saturday in January. They really seemed to enjoy it. We have been trying to work around the house and finish up some things that we have never done yet. We are going to have some painting done and get the shelves put in all the closets. This will be really nice.

I have also starting making some quilts. I am designing each of the kids one for their beds. I am really excited about this.

We are planning a vacation this summer. Michael and I have been working on this some lately.
Mapping out the best way to take there and back to see some scenery only the way. We are headed out to Virginia and Washington DC in June. We are very much looking forward to this.

And on another note. We are Aunt and Uncle again. Nathan and Amy had a baby boy, Brody, today around noon (I think). They induced and did a planned c section. It was to occur around noon, and we got the info by 2:00, so sometime between noon and 2. Anyway he was definitely a BIG boy. He weighed 11 lbs, and was 23 inches long. That is all the info I have now, and that mom and babe are doing well. We hope to get healthy so that we can get down to meet him soon.

Oh and I am not sure if I mentioned this before or not, but we are really proud of both Madison and Dylan for making it into the all school spelling bees. There were 4 kids from each class that made it into the school spelling be. Way to go!!

New Arrival!

2009-01-25T10:18:00.003-06:00

Well, it finally arrived. We have been waiting on it for several days now, maybe even weeks. It wasn't here yet last night, but sometime through the night it came. It is Xavier's second tooth. The right one on the bottom. It is just barely through the gums, but it is definitely there. Maybe that would explain his not wanting to sleep the last couple days and nights. He is not fussy, just not really himself. So we will see if this helps him rest. Also it could have been his shots. He did develop a very minor small fine rash Friday morning. It is for the most part gone now, so not sure what caused it. So for now, we will be awaiting the arrival for numbers three and four.

Syd has come down with a nasty cold. Her nose runs constantly, and she sounds a little horse and stuffy. We will wait to see what happens. With her asthma, she usually gets worse before better, but the last few times it has not been as bad. So we will just wait and see what happens. I did start her meds immediately as soon as I noticed she was coming down with something.

Dylan had a basketball game yesterday. They won!! They are getting so much better. That is really the goal for them. Not to necessarily win, but to improve. They have two weeks of games left.

And as for Madison, nothing much going on. Her new thing is to run, run, run. We made a new rule in the house in order for the kids to get on to the lap top they have to run. When it is nice, they run ten laps around the house. When it is not, they run half a mile on the treadmill. Every time Madison asks to get on the laptop, I tell her she needs to go run. She always asks how far and I say half mile. She has been going above and beyond her half mile. I think she has been running at least 3 miles each time, sometimes four. I think she found her calling. She is not much into sports, but I think with a little training and encouragement from her dad, she will be a long distance runner.

In close, just a concern from a conversation Syd and I had the other day. I got a new washer and dryer. And she and I were sitting in the laundry room watching the clothes wash. She is as most of you know my loving child. And she said to me "Mommy, I love you", which is not unusual. And I of course said, "I love you too". Then she said, "I don't ever want you to die." WHAT?? Why is my five year old worried about me dieing? I don't want her to have to worry about this. But I guess for her to understand it at her age is really special. I suppose it is because of the deaths we have had in our family. She talks about how she misses her Grandpa Flentie quite often. She too talks of Mariah, but in a different way. Maybe because she only knows her from pictures. And angel Ava. She remembers it vividly. So I guess she has been through enough to know. It really makes me sad to know that she is thinking of losing us. And I hope and pray that God's plan for us it to be here with our children and them here with us for a long, long, time.

Does This Look Familiar?

2009-01-23T07:46:00.003-06:00

I know one of our kids favorite movies of all time is the Wizard of Oz. Funny, I hated that movie as a kid. But our kids, all of them, have loved it from the first time they saw it. A few years back, we took them to the musical production in Wamego. They have been to the Oz museum in Wamego several times. They have met four of the original munchkins. And every year they want to go back to the Oz Fest. I am planning to take them this year. So knowing all of that, when I went in to check on Xavier a couple days ago during his nap, this is what I saw. And of course, to us it looked like the Wicked Witch of the East. Enjoy!

Pictures, Pictures, Pictures!

2009-01-23T07:05:00.002-06:00

Okay so they are in reverse order of what I thought, but that is okay. These first two are Xavier on his half birthday. Exactly 6 months old.

This has become one of my favorite photos of him.

This was taken just a couple weeks ago. He had just gotten out of the bath.

To remind everyone, this is how he looked just a few hours old.

And, just a few minutes old.

My Little Man is Half a Year Old!!

2009-01-21T20:12:00.006-06:00

Well as I promised, the update from Xavier's appointment. He is currently 17 lbs and 4 oz. which is about a pound and a half more than double his birth weight. He is 26 7/8" long and his head circumference is 17". He is right on track as far as growth. As far as development, he is right on track and a little advanced. He pushes up with his arms to 90 degrees when on his belly. He sits with support and is starting to sit for a few seconds without support. He is reaching for things and trying hard to get them. He is eating number 2 foods now. He has tried many different things and seems to like them all for the most part. Green beans are not his favorite, but he does eat them. He is starting to get separation anxiety. Strangers scare him, and if mommy leaves the room or goes out of sight he cries:) (What a great feeling that mommy is needed) He isn't at all spoiled!;-) So he is right on track. He got four injections today. His immunizations and a flu shot. So that is how that appointment went.

As for the others, just school, religion and basketball practice. Tonight as I picked the kids up from religion, Madison and Dylan were arguing over who could be your girlfriend or boyfriend. Dylan's "girlfriend" is his his 4th cousin. He said it is okay to marry your third cousin, right mom. I said legally, I think so but I don't think it is something to worry about in 3rd grade. He just replied, "well that is what I am going to do with Parker" (marry her I guess). How funny!

Okay, well I really tried to download pictures for all of you. But I seem to be having problems doing it. I have tried several times and it is not working. Our Internet has not been working properly lately so that may be the problem . I promise to try tomorrow as Xavier is fussy and crying right now and I think he needs his mommy.

Happy Half Year Birthday Little Man

2009-01-21T09:27:00.002-06:00

WOW where does time go????? I am both excited and sad that Xavier is a half year old today. He has a 6 month check up here in about an hour, so we will go to his appointment and I promise to post more later, including pictures. So hold on tight, and I will return later to let you know all the details of how he is growing up soo fast.

We had a Great Weekend

2009-01-19T10:02:00.002-06:00

Well, it's Monday morning and it did feel great to sleep in my bed last night. I think the kids must have felt the same way as I didn't hear too much from them during the night. The kids and I went to spend the weekend with my family in St Joe. They always have big sales on their winter clothes at the mall there on MLK weekend. I usually buy the kids clothes for the next winter. I have gotten great deals on winter coats in the past. Like $80 coats for $8 bucks. This weekend my best buy was some rugby type shirts for Michael that were $40 for $4.18. I did get some other pretty good buys as well. Also felt great just to get away and spend the weekend with some family. We just shopped, hung out and played Wii. The kids just love those games. And it is a special treat since we do not have a Wii here, and have no plans to get one any time soon. Michael just hung out at home and enjoyed some quiet time. He had some work he needed to get done, so it was a great time for him to do that. however we really missed him while we were gone.

So now it is back to school and work. The sun is shining beautifully today. I am ready for warmer weather. Not too much to report for last week. I do want to wish my sister, Becky and sister in law, Amy a belated happy birthday, as well as my great aunt Millie. They all share a birthday, and my sis and sister in law share it the same year and all. How ironic.

They older kids are all enjoying school. Xavier still just has the one tooth. He is diligently trying to learn to crawl. Now when we sit down at the table, he thinks he has to have something off of our plates to put into his mouth. He has started this high pitched loud screaming. It is hard to believe he will be 6 months old in just a few short days. That of course means he will have to have more shots on Wednesday:( But I am excited to see how he has grown. He has tried many different fruits and vegetables and loves almost all of them. We are moving him up to number 2 foods. He is also enjoying the graduate puffs starting this past week.

I am excited to have a new washer and dryer to be delivered on Thursday. My wonderful husband bought me a new front loading washer and dryer. I have heard lots about these, good and bad. So we will just see for ourselves.

Just a quick story from the weekend in close. Saturday night we went to mass at 6 oclock, grabbed some sandwiches from Goodcents for dinner and after we were done eating, enjoyed playing Wii together. We played some Mario racing game. We all took our turns at it. Anyway about 11:00, I think or a little after, we headed off to bed. Syd and I got the bedroom, my aunt and Dyl on the air mattress, and my mom on the sofa. Maddy took the floor in the sleeping bag, by my mom and the air mattress. Everyone was down for the count. Well around 2:30 or alittle after, I hear my Aunt and Mom trying to wake Dylan. For those of you who don't know, he sleep walks. We have caught him trying to go outside before in the middle of the night when it was 10 degrees below. Anyway, I rushed out there to see what was going on and as I got out there I could hear him yelling also. I got out there with a little flash light and my mom had gotten ahold of him and was trying to wake him. I ask what was going on? And they said he was fighting. (in his sleep). Well once we had the light on we could tell, he had punched the TV and moved it. And it is a 42 inch flatscreen. He had knocked over some other decor in the living room and he was after more. Thank God my mom was able to get ahold of him and from behind before he broke anything and hurt himself or someone else. They say in your sleep you are much stronger than you are otherwise. On Sunday morning we ask him about it and of course he has no recollection of any of it. It is both funny and scary. I worry about him wondering out when he gets older and getting hit by a car on the highway or something. And like at my aunts, if he would have went the other direction he could have went to the windows, broke them and fell out. This would have been from a second story to concrete below. I am hoping it is something he will outgrow.

Little Mother Hen!!

2009-01-12T21:17:00.005-06:00

Well, quick story to start off with. Tonight Michael worked late so that means I was doing the single mom thing of making dinner, trying to keep Xavier happy, homework, and whatever else needed done. Michael had actually just gotten home as I was finishing making dinner. So I told Sydnie who was finishing homework to go down to the basement and tell the older two they needed to turn lights and TV off and wash hands to get ready to eat. Here is what I hear from the kitchen.

Syd: Dylan you turn off the TV and go wash your hands. (And she continues to tell Madison to turn off the lights and wash also as Dylan interrupts her).

Dylan: I just washed them down here.

Syd: Well (and I can hear the attitude) I didn't see you wash them, so get up here and do it again so I can see you. (Wonder where she has heard that??)

That's my little mother hen for me. Always making sure no one skips a beat. She is just a crack me up. What would life be without her? And on the other hand, (since she was a twin in utero) what would we do with two of her? :-P

So yesterday we were working on the attic. Remind you that the sheet rock has been sitting up there since we built in 2004. We were about to get all the sheet rock hung. Man it is going to be a nice storage room up there. And Michael had gone outside to get something, I was finishing up screwing the rock (that doesn't sound good, but I am going to leave it since you all know what I mean). I decided to come down and take a bathroom break. We have one of those pull down metal ladder things for steps in the garage. Well I hit about the first 3 or 4 steps going down them facing the front thank God, and went down the rest of them on my back/rump/arms. Laid there for about 15 seconds, came in the house holding back tears, asked the kids where Michael was and went straight into the jacuzzi tub. I was done for the day. I escaped with only minor injuries, injuries none the less. My rump is incredibly bruised and scraped up, both my arms have huge bruised on the backs of my bicep area. I think my shirt saved most of my arm, as I tore basically the whole length of the long sleeves. And my neck is stiff today. For the most part my back is okay. Most of you know this is my major worry area as I already have titanium rods, pins, and screws in there. So I feel lucky, it could have been a lot worse.

I am really trying to loose the baby weight so I decided if I post on here where I am at maybe I will be more likely to stay with it. So as of today, I have a good 8 lbs to go. I say a good 8 lbs because 8 would be fine, if I could loose 10 that would be fantastic. That would get me down to where I was before I had kids. I have just changed my diet slightly, and am trying to exercise and tone my body. Even if I do get to my prebaby weight, I know my body will not be the same.

So, I am hoping to stick with it.

Not much else going on. We are trying to stay healthy. Seems the flu is going around the school. I go back to the dr for my back and leg pain on Friday. Seems that is is better, somewhat. So we will wait and see what he want to do next. Good night and try to stay warm.

Lucky Me, Lysol, Lysol, Lysol

2009-01-08T22:04:00.005-06:00

Well I don't know exactly how lucky I am. Madison has the flu. Not influenza, but gastritis. You know the vomiting, tummy achey stuff. She is resting well right now. I am hoping she is able to sleep it off. It must be going around her class. I know of at least 2 others with it today also. Hopefully it will pass as quickly as it came.She seemed fine when she arrived home from school around 4:00. She went outside and played some bball with Dylan. When they came in I had dinner ready. I was asking who wanted soft and who wanted hard taco shells. She said she wasn't feeling well. I ask her what, and she said her tummy hurt alittle. So she didn't eat. I had her go ahead and get ready for bed, take a shower etc. After her shower she was in the living room and gagged alittle. I thought she was getting sick then, but nothing came up. Then she went right to bed. I had her go to bed in the "office" (the bedroom upstairs next to Michael and I's room. I gave her a bucket and off to sleep she went. About 8:oo I was in the living room on the laptop and I heard a weird noise in the hallway, I know right away what it was. Needless to say, I think she was sleeping and didn't realize she was sick. Now I have a beautiful stain on my carpet. I cleaned it up right away, and put stain remover on it. Then got the carpet shampooer out and sucked it up, but I can't seem to get it completely out. So I got everything cleaned up including her, and got out my Lysol. Now any of you that know me, know that Michael says we should buy stock in Lysol. When my kids are ill, I spray the whole house several times, in hopes to kill the germs and keep everyone else from getting it. So let's hope Madison can sleep it off, and no one else gets it. And that it is gone as quickly as it came.

On a better note, I realized I haven't posted that Xavier is now speaking in words that we understand. On Christmas day night, he said "da da". Yeah I know, I was hoping for it to be mama, but it wasn't. Ever since he says it all the time. What's really funny is when he is saying dada, but wanting me. Maybe he is a little confused.

Houston, We Have a Tooth!!

2009-01-07T12:41:00.003-06:00

OMG! Finally, Xavier has his first tooth. I thought I felt it earlier this morning, but couldn't feel it when i was trying. But now I found it. It is just barely through. It is the bottom on the left. I knew he was really working on teeth because the other day I kept hearing this squeaking noise (like a clean finger on clean tupperware). Well I finally figured out it was him rubbing his gums together. And he has started biting his spoon when you are feeding him.
On another note, he has to be getting close to crawling as well. He gets up but doesn't go anywhere. Right now he just rolls where he wants to go. But he really digs his toes into the floor and pushes.
I am going to try really hard to post often to the blog. I have a ton of pictures that I need to download, just don't have the patience to wait on them. But I am going to get that done yet this week.
Wishing a Happy Birthday to Jamie Boeckman (niece) today and James Boeckman (Michael's Brother) tomorrow.
TTFN!!

Christmas, Year End, Snow Days, Never a Dull Moment!

2009-01-03T22:38:00.002-06:00

WOW! Where to start?? I shouldn't wait so long to post. It has been crazy busy here. Since my last post, hmm, well the kids were out of school due to snow days on Friday and Monday before Christmas break was to start. So we have had a much longer break than planned. I really could have used those two days without any kids here to wrap gifts. But I did manage to get it all done even with them here. I just locked myself in the bedroom for two days.

Any way, Madison had an orthodontist apt. on the 23rd. She got her spring jet appliances installed. She was having some trouble eating and talking for a couple of days, but now is in the swing of things.

Xavier caught a nasty head cold right before Christmas. I had to take him to the Dr on Christmas Eve morning. They said good thing it was in his head and not his chest. They did start him on some antibiotics since he was so full of congestion in his head, to help prevent it from draining into his ears and giving him an ear infection. He just finished up his antibiotic and it doing great.

I have been trying to catch up on some much needed bookwork. It is all the stuff that has to be done at the end of the year. I was behind on doing some of it as well, so I am caught up now and plan to stay that way.

Dylan has started winter basketball league now. They play for about 6 weeks or so on Saturday mornings in Frankfort. This is a new sport for us this year. So we just add one more to the calendar.

Hopefully you all had a great Christmas and great start to 2009. We had a Christmas starting on Christmas eve, everyday up until last Sunday. Michael has been able to take some time off the last couple weeks, which has been very nice. We have done alot of hanging out and being lazy. We have made a couple of shopping trips, just whatever. Today he helped me and the kids take down the Christmas trees. I am glad to have that done. And in the process somehow we ended up cleaning the whole attic. Am glad to have that done also. It will be so different come next week when the house is quiet again. I have some winter projects, I hope to get started now.

Not much else carrying on. I had my second injection on my back this week. Might be helping Little. Not sure what the next step is. We will find out in a couple weeks. I have some resolutions to post and hopefully some new pictures. I will try to do that soon, but right now I think it is time for me to hit the hay. Tah, tah!!

Happy Birthday Baby Girl!!

2008-12-18T10:18:00.003-06:00

Yes I know one day late. Believe me I thought of Mariah all day yesterday. I can relive the day she was born and the two days leading up to it perfectly. Actually, I can go back to the Friday before she was born on Wednesday. I remember all too well Dr Evans telling us that her condition was fatal and giving us our options. I remember going with Michael's mom and dad and niece to a basketball game at Linn that night. And the anticipation that on Monday we were going to become parents. That was the longest weekend ever.

I remember my mom and Michael being there with me and Dr Evans telling us he thought it would be quick. I had nothing to eat or drink from midnight the night before. And by Monday night with no changes at all I ask for a meal. And got it! Tuesday came with the same story, no changes. At this point I was thinking a little that maybe we didn't make the right decision. It wasn't until later that I learned that the Dr had told my mom that the heartbeat was gone that morning when he did the sono. So the decision was already made for us. Finally in early hours of Wednesday morning my water was ready to be broke. Dr Morgan Hostetter (Sp) from Australia came in and broke it. From that point on I was dilated to 4, and Mariah's little hand was out of the cervix. But even then it still took forever. I remember later in the afternoon, my nurse, Jeanie, how appropriate, asked if I just wanted to try and push, and of course I did. So Dr Evans was called and Mariah Jeanne was delivered. We got to hold her and love her. They brought us in lotion and teeny tiny clothes to pick out and dress her. She was baptized by Rev Eva Brown. This is how vivid everything is. I even remember the names. And none of this is written down. All from my memory.

I remember to this day the beautiful Christmas tin with the Angel on the lid that my mom bought for us to line with red velvet. This was our little makeshift casket that we made. This is what was recommended by the hospital. She was much too tiny to have a real casket. I remember when they took her from us and we knew we would never see our precious little angel again, until we meet in heaven.

Oh the emotions that run. I am so excited for my cousin and his family. They found out yesterday that they are having a little girl. After four boys, everybody would want a girl! I remember with all of my sono's with my kids, I always wanted to know the sex, but first that everything was fine. That we wouldn't have to relive that horrible dream again. And if you read the comment on the last post, no Monica, you caused no extra pain for us. With time I have learned that no matter how many kids I have I cannot replace Mariah. Not that I have tried, but even with my four wonderful children the void is still there. I have two girls. They haven't by any means taken away the agony for the missing spot in my heart. They say time heals. It does heal, but never takes away the emptiness. I am so happy for you to experience the joy that comes with a daughter. And most of all that you, my sister, Kara, and my sister in law, Amy are all having, at least at this point, healthy babies. And I pray everyday that they all come into this world healthy, along with all other babies being born.

So to you baby girl,

You were with us only a few short, very short, hours. Momma misses you so much and wonders what it would be like for you to be here with us today. Even though your siblings never knew you, they ask about you all the time. I wish you could have stayed with us, but know that you are in a very good place. I hope that you never suffered or had pain. I also know that you are with us in spirit each and every minute. Your special place in our hearts will never be forgotten. We love you so so much and miss you.

Love,

Momma

I am going to leave you with the wreath we had made for her grave this year. I believe she would love it, it is so her.

Once Again I Need Your Help

2008-12-11T19:01:00.002-06:00

I am asking that all of my readers drop a comment to Eileen Huffman. I personally don't know Eileen. I do however know her husband Scott. He was a drug rep when I worked at the hospital in Onaga. Eileen has been battleing breast cancer for quite some time now (years). And when things seemed to take a turn for the worst, with all the prayers being said for her, they now seem to be improving. You can visit her blog by clicking on her name on my side bar. Even if you don't make a comment on her site, please keep her in your prayers, as the chemo she is enduring is very rough on her. Thanks!!

Don't Be Scared

2008-12-10T10:30:00.002-06:00

Well, I am thinking now. Yesterday we had more hits than we have ever had in one day. I am totally excited about that. However, not a single sole has made any comments. This is like the only adult interaction I get, being a stay at home mom. I love to hear your comments. Even if I don't know you or you don't know me. My sister in law and brother in law knew several people just through their blog and then felt as if they had known them all along and have actually met several of them in person. It is a great way to make friends, some of which have been through similar trials in life. Which makes for a great support group. I almost feel as if I have scared everyone off. So if you are visiting just leave us a little note. And if you have a blog we will visit and become "friends."

Anyway, just remember to light your candle on Dec 14th.

Oh and I noticed that I didn't post about Syd's 5 year checkup. All is great. She is right on task and achieving above her age level in academics. So all is great.

Needing Your Help

2008-12-09T08:36:00.004-06:00

As many of you have probably read in Amy's blog, Kaden and Angel Ava, there is going to be a world wide lighting of candles on December 14th. I ask that all of our readers participate in the event. It is part of the Compassionate Friends Worldwide Candle Lighting. Compassionate Friends is a foundation that supports family after a child dies. The lighting of the candle unites family and friends around the globe as the candles are lit. You are to light them at 7:00 pm your time and burn them for 1 hour to honor and remember children who have lost their life and gained their wings. By lighting them at 7:00 your time it creates a virtual wave of light around the world. Ironically, this was started in 1997, the same year Mariah was born. Amy has asked for anyone participating to take a picture and send it to her. And I will be taking those pictures as well. If you would like to send me a photo, leave me a comment with an email address and I will get you my email address.

In doing this, and the upcoming birthday the Mariah has on the 17th, I have been putting a lot of thought into posting a photo of her. And I have decided to do so. With that being said, I want to remind all of you that she is very underdeveloped. Her skin was not yet formed, so she had the consistency of thick jello. I know you are probably thinking I am crazy to compare her to that, but the pictures can create lots of questions and uncertainty. Our kids had lots of questions, but none the less they completely understand and are totally in love with their sister. And she was very red when she was born. Also in one of the photos, you can see one of the many cysts she had on the top of her head. But she has such a cute little face. She has the Boeckman pug nose. (That all my kids have) So with that being said, I am posting a photo of her.

Mariah Jeanne, we all miss you so much. It is hard to believe it was almost 11 years ago that you came into this world and took our breath away as you gained your wings. Your siblings ask about you and talk about you all the time and what it would be like if you were still here. I know that you and Grandpa are having a ball up there. And sometimes wonder if you needed Grandpa and that is why it was his time to go. We all love you very much.

Please also light candles for any deceased children you may know. Our angels are, Mariah Boeckman and two other children that were lost as miscarriages Baby Boeckman 2001, and Baby Boeckman 2003, Tye Flentie, and Ava Boeckman. Along with some blogging friends Angel Gabi and Madison Rice. Also we will be including many other friends of our who have lost their lives.

Saying Goodbye is never Easy

2008-12-03T21:37:00.002-06:00

Today Michael and I along with my sister Becky, and Michael's brother Nate, went to a friend from High schools funeral. It seems as though not so long ago we were together with him and his family for his sister's funeral. The two of them were only 18 months apart, their date of death that is. His death was very sudden and unexpected. I feel so bad for his family. I was not terribly close with Joe, but his brother was my first love. So during the time I was dating Anthony, I did get to know Joe somewhat, and then did hang with him later in my high school years. He as a very good friend of my sisters. To see the pain his mom and dad were in broke my heart. It is never easy to say good bye no matter the situation. It was really nice to see some friends from high school that we haven't seen for some time though. Not a nice circumstance to have brought us together. R.I.P. Joe. We miss you!

Sydnie is having her 5, yes 5 year checkup tomorrow. Mostly routine, however she has been having spells for about 2 weeks were she is vomiting. Could just be a bug, but were she is fine for several days and then sick out of the blue, I want to have it looked at. Otherwise, just routine, and NO SHOTS! She has already had her Kindergarten shots, so we are lucky there.

The kids have their music program at school tomorrow night. I will try to get some good pictures and post them. I believe the theme this year is a traditional Christmas. So no fancy costumes this year. Maybe I could get a small video to post also.

Well please keep Dean and Terri Luckeroth and their family in your prayers tonight that they may find comfort and strength in each other to get them through the days ahead. Until next time............

Busy Busy Day Yesterday

2008-11-27T21:47:00.005-06:00

Well, I am finally getting a little time to update. The family and I have been at my mom's for the tradition the I started 11 years ago. I have always went and spent the night with her the night before Thanksgiving to help her prepare the feast. As we started having kids, I just started taking them with me. And usually Michael goes out with friends, however, he went with us last night also.

So with that said, Madison had to go to the orthodontist yesterday. She had to go in and make the molds for the apparatus that is to stretch out her jaws. Everything was quick and easy. Then off to do some quick shopping and lunch. I also had planned to do some family pictures. So that was next on our list. I have been taking them myself now for 2 years and am completely happy with the way they turn out. It is much cheaper than professional pictures. A big THANK YOU to Terry and Carol Ronnebaum and Jim and Misty Adkins for letting us borrow their beautiful yards to take the pictures. We had a good day and a great time for taking them.

Once we arrived home then it was off to Grandmas to help her out. For my records, a few things that were said and done and need jotted down. Syd was a big help in the kitchen and loves to cook and wash dishes. She told Grandma last night that she was a dishaholic. And before I forget last week at the Windmill Inn when all she wanted to eat was her roll, she called herself a breadgatarian:-) And a couple weeks ago, she came up stairs from bed one morning and told me that Dylan gave her the hick ups. Because he had had them the night before, and I guess they are now contagious. Not to mention she had the hick ups yesterday morning and she said mom, my hick ups lost their voice! And I said what?? She said , I have the hick ups, but they aren't making any noise. How cute??!! And then on to Madison. She wanted Michael to get up this morning and put on this Halloween mask and scare Grandma. He asked where she was at and Madison replied, "in the shower." Michael ask her how he was supposed to scare her if she was in the shower and she simply replied "go in there and scare her" Like hello, I don't think so. It was so cute.

Any way I hope you all had a great Thanksgiving and hope you enjoy a few of the pictures we took yesterday!!

HAPPY THANKSGIVING !!

2008-11-27T14:58:00.001-06:00

Wanted to wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving!! Enjoy your turkey day.

My Love Hate Relationship

2008-11-25T10:48:00.002-06:00

So it is that time of year again. The time when I realize how much I both love and hate the season. And I am not talking about the cold since many of you know how much I really do hate cold weather. And by cold I mean 50 or below.

Anyway, my love hate relationship comes because I love Thanksgiving and Christmas. I love to bake and cook, and burn spicy smelling candles, and put up all the decorations. But I also hate the roller coaster of emotions that comes with it. Not only did I suddenly lose my dad to cancer this time of year, but also our precious Angel, Mariah. So this year it is running through my head, what my dad would be making for whom at Christmas time. He was always so sneaky when he would be making something for someone. And what he might think of Xavier and having another grandson. And another grand baby on the way. The other night Michael and i were watching Jeff Dunham's Christmas special on Comedy Central. And for those of you that don't know Jeff Dunham, he is a comedian and ventriloquist. My dad and Michael used to watch Comedy Central all the time on Saturday nights, and they would just belly laugh the whole time. I was laughing so hard the other night, and all I could think of was that dad would have loved that Christmas show. Thought the same thing watching blue collar comedy the other night.

And Mariah would be turning 11 years old on December 17th. Of course she wasn't due until May, but her birthday is the 17th. What would she want? What kind of clothes would she be into? Would she be more like Madison or Syd? Or maybe just herself. What would her class be doing in school this time of year? What would their roll in the Christmas program at school be? Would she want long or short hair and what color it might be? All of these thoughts roll more through my mind this time of year. I do think the holidays bring on emotions as you notice the empty spaces in your heart when family is all together. But also the fact that this is the time of year that we lost them also.

I am sure many of you have noticed the changes I have made on the blog as well. By trying to include Mariah in everything. For the past 11 years, she has been very much a part of our lives, however I fail to include her lots of times. Not trying to forget her, for the meer fact of trying to avoid questions. For instance, people ask how many children you have, do you answer 4 or 5. And if you answer 5 are they going to ask what ages and gender? And if they do, do you have to go through the whole story of how you only have 4 living and 1 deceased and why? I used to thing it would just be easier to answer if I didn't speak of her. However, I feel as if I am not including her to be a part of us. So I am working on doing so yet being comfortable with the possibility that there may be questions.

The kids always ask about her. What she might look like. What her and Madison could be doing. They always go with us to decorate her grave for Christmas and her birthday. I know she is in great hands and also know that she and my dad are the best of buddies. That he loved his grand babies. I wonder if he picks on her like he did Syd and Madison? And at the same time I see my Grandpa Flentie and how he used to pick on my sister and wonder what a time they are having!

Sorry this got so long. My emotional hat is on today. Of course it is grandparents day at school and I don't think that helps. I think about my poor kids and how they have only 1 Grandpa alive. Little Xavier will only know one. And then think back to myself at their age. I had 4 Grandpas, and 5 Grandmas. I just try to teach them to enjoy every moment they have with the ones they got.

If I don't get another post in. Happy Turkey Day to all!

Happy Birthday to Me, Vomit, and K State Tickets!!

2008-11-22T13:39:00.001-06:00

I know you are all probably thinking by the title, what is that crazy woman thinking!! But truth be known, it is all on my mind. I think I have esp. I have had this feeling for about a week that one of my kids would be sick. And sure enough, this morning around 5:45, Syd got sick. She came up stairs to our bedroom and said her throat hurt. I told her to go lay in the daybed in the office/nursery. (Xavier's dresser and toys are there, but his crib is in our room) Not five minutes after tucking her in, I heard her get sick. The poor little thing. I felt sooooooo bad for her. She would only get about 3-5 minutes break between times. It just wore her out. So after 2 hours of this and a little blood in her emesis, we took her to the dr. They gave her some medicine to calm her stomach. And she has been feeling much much better since. She now has diarrhea, and is pale and sleepy, not to mention dizzy, but at least she has enough energy to let you know she is okay.

So needless to say, she didn't give me a great birthday. Although I don't mind. It makes me feel good to know that she wants to be loved and cared for, and wants her mommy. What is a birthday at my age anyway? Really just another day.

And now for the tickets. We had tickets to take Madison and Dylan to the game today. I was going to have Michael take them after Syd got sick this morning. But then they were fighting, and I told them enough was enough and that they were not going to the game. So we gave the tickets away to Michael's sister Jessica and her husband Joe and some friends of theirs. I guess we will have to go extra next year to make up for not making it to a game this year. Michael went last week, but he is the only one that went. Toooo cold for me!!

Yesterday I went to Topeka and had my back injected. Talk about hurt. It was a very uncomfortable procedure. Today my back is sore and the leg pain is still there. I am hoping that it will be gone tomorrow. It may be a little better today. More of a pain in the rear of my thigh, rather than all the way down my leg. So we will see what happens. I am hoping all is well tomorrow and that the weather is super nice. I am wanting to get some family pictures taken. Don't know if we will achieve that or not. We will have to wait and see what tomorrow is like.

Wow, What a Day!!

2008-11-19T19:21:00.002-06:00

Did you notice all the changes to the blog!? I have been hard at work trying to figure out how to customize our blog. I love the Family Bumper Sticker. Isn't it cute. And fun to create also. So with that said, now I can better view if people are coming to look at our blog. Sometimes I wish there would be more comments left, so that I would feel more appalled to post. This way I will better be able to see if more people are visiting than the ones leaving comments, and maybe it will jump start me to post more often. So if you are visiting, please leave me a comment, question, words of encouragement, anything. Keep checking as there will probably be more new changes coming.

About the last post

2008-11-19T07:56:00.001-06:00

Just wanted to let everyone know, I played and played with those pictures and the captions to get them right and before I post they look fine, but when I post they get screwed up. I put them and the playlist on late last night and pretty much gave up on making them completely correct. So for those of you who gripe to me to update the blog, or those who don't gripe, but visit every day and think, no new updates. ENJOY!!, and yes you know who you are.

More pictures

2008-11-18T20:28:00.010-06:00

Syd dressed up in her Snow White dress, with her cowgirl hat, and of course her horse, Willow.

Random cute pictures of Xavier. He was lying on the floor, rolled over and decided to use Tigger for a pillow.

Xavier decided on day to take a nap, and without my knowledge. He didn't need his binky, as he found his fingers, something better!! And he has done this several times now.

Madison showing off her muscles?? Found this picture in my camera. Not sure who took it or why, but gotta love those pictures!!

This is a picture of the kids on Halloween with Great Grandma Kennedy (Boeckman). She fell and broke her hip so she is in the care home recovering. But she is 87 and in great health and normally lives at home and takes good care of herself.

Okay I can't figure out how to get these two pictures by themselves, so the first one is of Syd one Saturday when we were headed out to my moms to work at her house. And the second with Dylan is at the Cow Creek Opry. The guy in the photo works for us and he was doing the sound that night at the opry. Dylan wanted to help him out. We told Dylan not to touch anything and if he did blame it on Tanner.

And just a random picture of Syd watching TV one evening in her PJ's with her sun glasses on : -)

Where to Start??

2008-11-18T19:40:00.004-06:00

Okay, I guess the pictures are first. I am still working on figuring this all out and couldn't figure out how to put the pics at the bottom. So this is what you get. Just some fun pictures of Xavier. The last one is from his first cereal feeding on September 24th.

Once again it has been awhile since I have posted. I really am trying to be better at this, just seems as though time gets away from me. A lot has happened since I last posted.

Xavier had his 4 month check up on Thursday, the 13th. We did it a week early since earlier in the week he seemed to have a little tummy bug. Of course, since I scheduled him to see the Dr. it magically got better. Nothing wrong with that though. He was needing to go regardless so that is out of the way. Four months meant more shots, three to be exact. He did really well with them. He weighed 15lb 2 oz and was 25 inches long with a head circumference of 16. This was the same weight as when I took him to the Dr back in October, so they are sure he was not really gaining due to the diarrhea he had. So I have also started him on formula. I am still nursing him morning and bedtime, otherwise he is on formula. He is also loving fruits and veggies. We started him on veggies, (squash to be exact) on Oct 26. He just loves to eat. He has also started rolling over, the little squirt. He not only goes back to tummy, but tummy to back. I tried to get a video of this to play for all of you, but he would not perform in front of the camera. I will try to capture that in the near future. I am going to include some pictures of him. Oh yeah, and he is really teething, likes to chew on everything.

Sydnie has started reading at school. She has a ring of words we read, and she is on her second book. She is really loving the fact that she can read. She thinks she is big stuff. Her report from her teacher was excellent. They are having a feast next week at school and she is very excited to be bringing pumpkin pie. We are so proud of her. It is hard to believe she will be 5 in the very near future. She is such a good kid, always ready and willing to help others.

Dylan broke out with his usual fall hives last week. Nov 9th to be exact (for my records). We think now that he is allergic to the flu vaccine. The last two years it has been exactly 5 days after his flu shot that he has gotten the hives. So we will talk with his allergy Dr at Children's Mercy and see what she thinks.

Now on to Madison. We took her to the orthodontist today. She is really crowded which we have known for some time now. We are going to have to do two phases on her teeth to get them right. Talk about expensive. The first phase will place some metal devices in her mouth that will "stretch" her jaw out. This will give her more room in her mouth for her teeth. Then she will have to get braces to pull the upper teeth back to the right. So we will be putting her college fund into her mouth for the next couple of years.

So with all of that said, I will try to post more often. When things happen instead of a week or two later. I am going to include some photos for all of you as well.

Halloween, Flu shots and more.

2008-11-05T21:42:00.002-06:00

Well, I will have to post pictures later. But Halloween was a success here at the Boeckman home. The kids raked in the candy. I have taken it all away from them and believe it or not they have not asked for it since Saturday. BIG SURPRISE!! Madison was a witch, Dylan Harry Potter, Syd Jasmine, and Xavier was a Jack-o-lantern. They all had a great time.

Today I had to take Syd to the dr to get an ingrown toenail taken care of. She was so brave. Then we all, except Xavier, (he is not old enough yet) got our flu shots. Syd wanted to go first. Such a brave little girl. All of the kids did great. So I can now mark that off of our list of things that need to be done.

Xavier is eating a little bit of veggies, and fruit. He seems to like it well. He really loves squash and peas. Those seem to be his favorites so far. He has almost doubled his birth weight, just a few ounces to go. He is ready to roll over. He actually does roll over, but his arm usually holds him up, so that he cannot go on over onto his belly. He is just growing up to fast.

The weather is ready to change to fall like weather, I guess it is time. I really don't care for winter like weather, but so be it. We had thunderstorms tonight and rain. There is a chance for snow early next week. The kids love winter, so I do look forward to them having a great time our in the snow.

Trying One More Time

2008-10-29T11:02:00.003-05:00

Okay I have tried to get this several times, and I am a failure at it. So here it goes.

Pictures that I Promised

2008-10-28T09:31:00.003-05:00

Xavier with mom and dad, Father Arul and his Godparents(Grandparents). And Mr X in his cute little white tux.

Pictures of how Mr Flirt looks at 3 months. These pics were taken on October 21, 2008. (For my Reference). Isn't he just the cutest little guy. Okay I am probably biased.

As my sister told me I am slow at this. I am really trying to be better. Just seems as though time is not on my side. I am still not smart enough to figure out how to download the video onto my computer. Still working on that one. Guess I will sit down and read the manual today so that I can get the video posted.

Xavier was baptised on Sunday. I am including a few pictures of him. Also his 3 month pictures. So here it goes.

School Pictures

2008-10-21T13:20:00.005-05:00

Yes, school pictures. I have been trying to save these and download them for a couple of hours now. And wah-lah, (sp) I finally did it. This is Madison Paige Boeckman, age 9 3/4 years. She is in the fourth grade. She loves to read. She is a super smart girl. On her first report card this year, and yes I am bragging, her lowest grade was an 88% and of all classes it was in music. She blew the unit 2 test. Of her other classes, her lowest grade is a 90%, in reading, which is kinda hard to believe. And all the rest of her grades are 96% and above for the first 9 weeks. WAY TO GO MADISON!! Keep it up and we love you bunches.!

And for Dylan Michael Boeckman, age 8 years. His picture is so good. He was supposed to have the brown background also, but the only way to get it was to have retakes done. I did not want to risk getting the background vs. a bad photo, so I decided to stick with this picture and get a refund for the background. Anyway, he is a 3rd grader this year. Dylan's love is sports. Any kind. He is an internet gaming freek. However, he is limited on what and how long. His grades are good. Not as good as they should be, but good. He is enrolled in the gifted program at school and loves it. His trouble is in reading directions and taking his time. That is why his grades are lower than they should be. He does know what he should know though. GREAT JOB DYLAN! We love you!

Three Months Old

2008-10-21T08:53:00.003-05:00

Can you believe Xavier is 3 months old today? I cannot!!! He is growing like a weed. I am guessing he weighs about 15-16 pounds. I will weigh him later and see what I get. He is sleeping right now. He loves to be talked to and talks right back. He is a very happy baby. Laughs and smiles all the time. He loves to swing and also loves to sit in his walker. He is eating cereal at bedtime and loves it. He is the only baby I have nursed longer than 3-4 weeks. He and I both love this time together. He is sleeping through the nights. He usually goes to bed around 9:30 and wakes around 6:30. Works for me. He is wearing 6-9 month clothes right now. So he really has some newborn clothes that barely got used. It is sooooooo sad. None of the other kids grew up so fast. I would love for him to stay this age and size for several months. Bet it won't happen.

We will be getting flu shots in the next couple of weeks. All of the kids will hate me for that, but with Sydnie's asthma, it is a must.

We are working on Halloween costumes. Dylan is going to be Harry Potter, and Syd is Jasmine. As for the other two I am working on them. Not sure what we are going to end up with. I am thinking of making Xavier a "little stinker" a skunk. It is an easy homemade costume. Not sure about Madison.

I have some pictures to post and I am going to try to post a video of Xavier also. But I want to take some pictures of Xavier to post at 3 months also, so I will do that when he wakes up and try to post them later. I have a lot to get done today. It is past time to get statements out and I need to pay payroll taxes today also.

Busy, Busy, Busy

2008-10-20T12:38:00.002-05:00

I cannot believe I haven't posted since the 8th. Seems like just yesterday. Last week was a yucky long week. I had a virus that attacked my joints. Most days I just got the kids off to school and then laid on the couch until noon or so. Then I would drag myself off the sofa and try to get some house work done. I really have a lot of catching up to do now.

Michael's grandma Kennedy (Boeckman) fell on Friday morning and broke her hip. She had surgery on Saturday morning and all is going as planned. So please remember her in your prayers.

We had a busy weekend. On Saturday, Madison, Xavier and I went shopping in Topeka. We went to look for Xavier's baptismal outfit. We found one. Then did some grocery shopping. It was a really good day. Saturday night we went to the Cow Creek Opry in Havensville. It was a good time. Look forward to the next one.

Yesterday we spent all day working at my mom's building her a deck. It was a nice day to get it done. The guys and I worked on the deck most of the day. And my mom, sister Becky and I set her a new mail box. My sister Kara did a great job of relaxing and resting and watching Xavier for me. She is 13 weeks prego and really not feeling well. Not to mention she gets up at 4o'clock on weekends to work. We should get the deck finished up next weekend. Also have a few other projects to get done for mom yet this fall.

As for the week ahead. Tuesday I am getting my hair done, Yeah! Wednesday is religion. And Friday is our girl shopping trip to Kansas City. So busy week ahead also. I am thankful that football is over for us for the year. That involved 3 nights/days a week. But I am not sure that that means things will slow down.

Daddy Duty

2008-10-08T10:32:00.002-05:00

Well, today brings both joy and heart ache to my body. I am going to the Tina Turner concert in Kansas City tonight. I am very excited about the concert, but apprehensive about leaving the kids for an overnight get away. I know they are in the best hands possible, daddy's. I just get really homesick when I am not with them. I will be gone for about 19 hours. Funny how when I am with them all the time I need a break. But when I get the break I miss them so much. It will be good for me I'm sure.

Michael wants to go on a honeymoon sometime, as we have never taken one. After 11 years, you would have thought we would have done that by now. So this will be one baby step towards taking a longer vacation kid free. I am not sure I can do that.

So, I will take pictures and try to post them tomorrow, or this weekend. We actually have nothing going on this weekend except building fence, and Dylan's last football game on Sunday. It will be nice to be home and get something done.

Fevers, sore throat, and tummy aches, YUCK!

2008-10-01T08:33:00.002-05:00

Dylan is home from school today not feeling well. I really thing Xavier was not feeling well yesterday. He spit up everytime I fed him, and that is not like him. He was cranky and slept a lot. Dylan is just resting now and watching a little tv. I actually think his fever is down right now. He has been running a fever since at least 2:00 this morning.

Syd is just being herself. Watching Noggin and being ornery. Michael and I worked on our landscape project again last night. Slowly we are getting it done. I need to take some pictures to post. I am planning on getting the rest of the plants planted in the ground later today so that he can work on the stones when he gets home.

Our plans are to go to St Joe this weekend to cut down a tree for my aunt. We are also going to Leavenworth to the base for their garage sales this weekend. Hopefully I will find lots of nice clothes for Xavier for the winter. That is really the reason I am going.

Other than that not much to report. Dylan has a football game again on Sunday at 1:00 in Seneca. Just staying busy here otherwise. The weather today is gorgeous. Right now it is 50 degrees and sunny. The birds are singing and somewhere I hear a lawn mower going. Until next time......:-)

School days, Football, And Oh Yeah, the First Bowl of Cereal

2008-09-25T15:03:00.002-05:00

This was Syd one night at the supper table after a long hard day at school. I can't believe she was able to sleep hanging on to the chair like that.

Xavier isn't loved by his big sister at all, can you tell. She is always wanting to hold him.

Xavier is getting to eat cereal now at bedtime. Only a few teaspoons. Here is the first night that we gave it to him. He loves it. And oh yeah, he slept all night last night for the first time. From 10:00 til 7:00. Way to go Xavier. Only problem is I have to get up and pump in the middle of the night.

Good one Dylan! That is him tackling the opponent to the the ground.

Dylan in position waiting to see if the ball is coming to his side of the field.

Thought you all might enjoy some more pictures. Seems like I can never get enough of them on here before someone is asking for more.

Kiss and Tell

2008-09-23T12:28:00.004-05:00

Well, where do I start. When Syd got off the bus today, before she even made it up to me from the end of the drive, she was yelling at me "Mommy, I kissed Presly." YOU DID WHAT? So I am asking her about it and not only did she kiss Presly, she kissed him lots. And then she proceeds to tell me, "I kissed Brock too!" WHAT? So I told her she should not do that and that she was going to get yucky sick germs if she did not quit kissing boys. You know this day and age she could probably be charged with sexual harassment. And another thing, Presly is a distant cousin. Not that kissing in preschool means you will end up married, but YUCK. I don't know what her daddy is going to say, (or do)! Brock and Presly you better watch out!

Xavier seems to be doing okay today. He is running a low grade fever, but nothing unexpected after immunizations. He didn't sleep quite as good last night as usual, but still not a bad night.

Madison was not feeling well yesterday. She was really tired yesterday morning which I didn't think much of. When she got home she was still acting really tired. She did her homework and then got her book and started to read. At supper time she just didn't look like she felt well. She had been complaining that she had a headache all day. She was running a low grade fever also. She ate some of her supper and then read for a while and went to bed. This morning she got up acting like a new girl. She said she was feeling fine. Oh what a good night of sleep can do.

Brian's funeral is tomorrow morning. Please pray that Michael has a safe trip down to Rossville. He will be on the bike solo. I will be going with the kids. Since the patriot guard is riding, they will be riding solo. That is why I am going separately. Also pray for peace in Brian's family that they find comfort in knowing he is now longer suffering.

Two Month Check up

2008-09-22T15:34:00.002-05:00

Xavier had his two month check up today. He is right on track for his age. He weighed 13#7oz., and was 23 3/4" long. He does have a small head, which is nothing to worry about. He had to get 3 shots:( He has been sleeping since we got home, with the exception of about 10 minutes in which he cried. I tried to feed him, but he wasn't interested. So i gave the poor little guy some more Motrin. Other than that not much to report.

Poker Run for Brian

2008-09-21T19:52:00.002-05:00

Yesterday we all went on the poker run for Brian Fiedler. Michael and I rode the bike and Grandpa took the kids in the suburban. It was a lot of fun. I was going to get a sitter, but decided it would be better to take the kids. I also thought it may look a little funny with the breast pump strapped to the bike. There was around 150 bikes in the ride. I haven't heard a total on the dollar amount made, but the way the auction was going I'm sure it had to be close to $20,000. Brian's funeral is on Wednesday in St. Mary's. You can see his obituary at cjonline.com, or piperfuneralhome.com.

Today we just took it easy. We did some cleaning and hung out. Dylan played football at 1:00. They lost again, but their game is improving, so that is really what matters.

School pictures are tomorrow. And parent teacher conferences are this week also. So we will learn how the kids are doing in school.

Prayers for the Fiedlers

2008-09-19T08:20:00.002-05:00

Many of you have ask how our friend Brian is recovering after his auto accident. And at this time we are asking for more prayers for him, his wife Mindy and their two children, along with all of Brians family. Mindy had to make the hardest decision in her life about 2 weeks ago or so to honor Brians wishes not to be kept alive on machines. He was moved into a care home at that time and hospice was called in. He has taken his time in passing, I am guessing to give everyone plenty of time to say goodbye. Sadly he passed away last night. We are going to be riding in a poker run on Saturday that is to benefit his wife and children. They are also having a dinner and live auction afterwards. Or if you just happen to be passing through Rossville on Saturday and need a good cup of Joe, stop in at Grounded Coffee house. All proceeds form their sales on Saturday are going to benefit the Fiedlers also.

Please keep Mindy in your prayers that she is at peace and finds comfort knowing she honored Brians wishes. Pray for Brian that he is peaceful in his final resting place. And for the kids, TJ and Jaycee, that they can understand life, find their new normal, and find peace and comfort from surrounding family.

Last BUT Not Least, Xavier

2008-09-15T13:23:00.005-05:00

These pictures were taken on Aug 22. So Xavier was one month old in the pictures.

These were just taken on the 9th of Sept. So Xavier was 7 weeks old in the pictures. And yes he is laughing not crying. He laughs, but not out loud yet. He is however talking and cooing alot. And yes as you see quite well in these pictures, he has a redish tint to his hair. Very prominent in there photos.

More Vacation Pics

2008-09-15T13:04:00.003-05:00

These are pictures from the Amazing Pizza Machine. The kids and Michael are in the wild thing on the first picture. One of those rides that spins around, and around.

These pictures are on the frogger. It went up and down then up and down. It is a lot like those rides like at Worlds of Fun that take you up and you free fall down, only this one keeps going up and down.
This is Syd driving on of the virtual nascars.

Pictures, Pictures, Pictures

2008-09-15T12:51:00.002-05:00

One day late, and more than a few dollars short. Here are the pictures I promised you yesterday. Better late then never. All of these pictures were taken at the zoo in Omaha. As you can see we went to one of the 3D movies. The glasses were huge. Madison kept getting scared by the fish and sharks. Syd watched most of the movie without the glasses. Dylan and Michael seemed to enjoy it. And me, well, Xavier and I seemed to sleep through most of the movie.

Rain, Rain Go Away

2008-09-13T19:36:00.002-05:00

We were happy to see the rain stop today. It was cloudy this morning, but sunny ( alittle) this afternoon. I really need to get in the grove of updating this blog at least once a week. I apologize to all of you who have been looking for the last month, wow, where did it go.

Dylan is playing full tackle football this fall. They had their first game last Sunday. They need a little practice, we will see how they do tomorrow. I have picture to post of last weeks game and will try to get to that tomorrow.

Madison, Dylan, and Syd are loving school. I received that dreaded phone call on the first day of school from Syd's teacher. I just knew she had already mouthed off, or shown her true colors. Don't get me wrong, I love her to death, but she is a 4 year old with attitude. BUT, it was good news, her teacher thought she may learn a little more advanced things in the morning class than the afternoon class, so she wanted to change her to mornings. It has been a good move for Sydnie. The other day, she was talking about our eyes, and whose were what color and whose matched whose. And in the midst of her conversation she asked about her big sissy Mariah. What color of eyes she has. I told her I wish I knew. I had to explain to her that we never saw her eye color before she passed. And then I told her I bet they were blue. I just have a feeling that if she were here today she would be a beautiful dark haired, blue eyed little girl. Little, tween more like it. I really hate to have to answer those questions when the kids ask, the ones I don't have a concrete answer for.

Xavier is growing like a weed. He found his voice a couple of weeks ago. All the kids were in school and he was in his swing. I was sitting on the floor by him working on business, and all of a sudden it was like he was having a conversation with someone. He had found his voice. Since then he does lots of cooing. He is a very happy baby. He only really cries when hungry or if he has a dirty diaper. He has been sleeping from 10:00 to about 4:00 as a general rule. I do have some pictures to post of him also.

We took a small vacation on Labor Day weekend to Omaha. We had a good time. Just relaxing. Took in the zoo, dinosaurs at the children's museum, and the Amazing Pizza Machine (The Cadillac of Chucky Cheese). I will post pictures also later.

So I hope that catches everyone up to speed. A friend of ours could really use your help with your prayers. He was in a serious accident on July 15, and is not recovering from a brain injury, so his wife is trying to uphold his wishes, and the life support is being turned off. You can visit them at friendsofbrianf.com. We are praying for peace and comfort for you Mindy.

It has been a very busy time of year for us. I will try to do better in getting a post out a little sooner. Now, Michael has made dinner and I better go eat.

Go Carts, Putt Putt, and Arcades Cont.

2008-08-14T09:28:00.003-05:00

Darn it, I forgot to rotate these picture again. Oh well:-) This was at the putt putt golf course. It was a sweltering hot day.

Go Carts, Putt Putt, and Arcades, Oh My!

2008-08-14T08:57:00.004-05:00

Syd and Michael driving the go carts. I think the centrifical force is throwing Syd up against Michael. It was hard to get a good picture of her.

Dylan the stud, driving all by himself. He finally got the hang of it by the last race.

All three of them driving a race at the arcade room.

Oh and By The Way

2008-08-13T22:35:00.001-05:00

I had Xavier weighed today at Dylan's physical and he weighed in at 9 lbs, 10 oz. So almost a 10 pounder now.

Swimming Lessons

2008-08-13T22:20:00.002-05:00

I guess I should have rotated these first. I cannot figure out if I can do it once I have downloaded them. Anyway, this is Syd at swimming lessons and going off of the diving board.

Once again going off of the diving board.

Dylan doing the back float, and showing off as he goes off of the board.

I did get more pictures downloaded onto my computer, but Xavier is sleeping, so I must also go to bed. Big day tomorrow, school starts. I promise to finish with more pictures tomorrow.
Good night to everyone, and sleep tight.

Pics as I Promised You All

2008-08-13T21:36:00.002-05:00

Vacation Bible School

Just another pic of Xavier

Pics I Promised

2008-08-13T14:50:00.002-05:00

The first one was taken July 24, 3 days old. The second Aug 2, 12 days old. The bottom two were taken today, 24 days old.

Wow It's Been Awhile!

2008-08-13T14:29:00.003-05:00

What is wrong with me? I didn't realize that I hadn't posted for almost 2 weeks. That is how much time flies when your having fun? I guess!

Well since my last post, Xavier was weighed on Aug 7, and weighed 9lbs, 2oz. He gained 1lb, 1oz, in a week. He is a good eater. He is growing by leaps and bounds:( Kinda sad they don't stay little long.

The kids had swimming lessons. Dylan passed at level 4 which is a very intent level. Lots of new stuff to learn in level 4. Syd is still at level 2, but really is trying hard to learn to swim. Madison chickened out and wouldn't take lessons for fear of deep water. Maybe next year.

We took Dylan to the sports center in Topeka for his birthday. We played putt putt golf arcades, and then went to the race track, go carts that is. He and Syd and Michael had a blast racing in the go carts. Dylan was tall enough to drive by himself. I will post pics later. Madison was at a friends house.

Then last Saturday, we took Madison and Syd shopping in K.C. We went to the Trex cafe and ate. Just a piece of advice, you can go there and look around all you want for free. We waited 45 min. to get seated and then the meal for the 4 of us ended up costing $61. I really didn't think it was worth all of that. Especially since I just had a philly sand, and the kids ordered off the kid menu. Then on to shopping. This was a reward for working with Michael without complaining. They put in several good days of work. Madison and Michael went into Justice, Madison's favorite store and got a new outfit for school. Syd really wanted on outfit here, but they are just a size or two too big. Daddy still owes her an outfit now that I think of it. Dylan was at a friends house playing while we were in K.C.

So now the kids are back to school tomorrow. My will it be quiet around here. Maybe I will be able to get caught up on some work.

To leave you I am posting a few recent pics of Xavier. I will try to post more pics later.

First Checkup 10 Days Old

2008-08-01T08:45:00.002-05:00

Xavier had his first check up yesterday at the Dr office. He was 10 days old already. Doesn't time fly. He weighed 8 lbs. 1 oz., so that is really good for a breast fed baby. They are usually expected to be to their birth weight at 10 days. He was 2 oz over. So I guess he is a good eater. His head was 13 1/4" and he was 20 5/8" long. I thought he was longer than 19" at birth though. I don't think they stretched him out good when they measured his length. I thought he seemed long and skinny, with a little head. Otherwise, he is doing well. I had a good checkup also.
We are getting ready for Dylan's birthday party tonight. He will be turning 8 on Monday and we are celebrating today. He is having a baseball field and baseballs for cake. I will try to post pictures tomorrow. I have to get month end statements done tomorrow also, and if I get time I will post pictures. Otherwise I may have time on Sunday. Seems I am short on time these days. Xavier is screaming my name, so I guess duty calls.

Sleep is Good

2008-07-26T08:43:00.002-05:00

Well, I'm sure by now you are all wondering what is going on in our house! We are all adjusting well to the new presence in our home. Xavier is a little turned around on his nights and days, but he is adjusting as well. He put in a really good night for me last night. He went to sleep at 11:30 or so and slept til 2:30. Then I put him back down at 3:15 or so, and he slept til about 6:30. So not so bad. The first few nights were a little rougher. Wednesday night I ended up just sleeping in the recliner with him. He sleeps well when he is on his tummy, but of course we all know that is a no, no:)

The other kids are adjusting to him as well. The new is starting to wear off a little. Don't get me wrong they still smother him with love, but it is not so constant now. And they are learning what the can and can't, or should I say, are and aren't allowed, to do. They really are a big help. Sydnie is really into everything that is being done. Tuesday night I told her I was going to feed Xavier and she came right over and just started to unhook my nursing bra so that I was able to feed him. I just let her help. On Thursday, she got everything ready for his bath and put it in the bathroom, so that it was all ready when I was ready to give him a bath. Madison is a big help in making sure that things around the house are done. She does what I ask her to do which is really nice. Dylan is learning, he doesn't like to help out as much, but usually does as he is told. We are working really hard on him to use an appropriate level of decibels when he is talking inside.

So as you see, we are all doing well. Michael is working again today. He will be home at a good time though. We are going to a family get together tonight. We have a family reunion tomorrow and are also going to take in the Nemaha County Fair parade tomorrow evening. It is hard to believe by the work week next week Xavier will already be 1 week old. My how time flies! I will try to post some pictures tomorrow if I get time.

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Glad to be Home

2008-07-22T20:09:00.003-05:00

Well I know many of you have been waiting patiently for these. Here are some pictures of Xavier and his siblings. Of course his siblings are all very excited for him to be here and be home. I am sure we will have plenty of help in the upcoming days. Thanks to all of you for the comments, words of encouragement and prayers. I will try to post more tomorrow.

Name

2008-07-21T21:52:00.003-05:00

Ok we have a winner. The name is Xavier Patrick Boeckman. All is well. We will be going home tomorrow night if everything goes well. Will post pictures tomorrow hopefully. He's just as good looking as his father but more hair HaHa. The kids are so excited they wouldn't put him down. The only thing they were asking was when we could take him home. I think well have lots of help. They've already volunteered to get up with him in the middle of hte night. Well see how long that last when he's screaming to eat. They already said poopy diapers were out. I'm anxious to see how it goes since were out of practice. Wish us luck.

IT'S A...

2008-07-21T16:17:00.006-05:00

This is Amy (the other Amy : ) ), I am posting for Michael and Amy, it seems as though they are a little busy right now. They are welcoming their new baby BOY to the world. That's right...IT'S A BOY!!! He weighs 7lbs. 15 oz. and is 19 inches long. He was born today at 3:21pm. Mom and baby are doing great!!! They will let us know a name at a later time...stay tuned.

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

Baby ? Will Be Here Today

2008-07-21T10:51:00.002-05:00

Hey all, This is Whitney posting a blog for Amy. Amy got induced this morning at 8:30am they started potosin then. At approx. 10:30 they broke her water!! All is going well at this point.She is having pretty hard contractions and is hoping baby will be here no later than lunch time!! I will post for her later letting you know what she had:) Keep her in your prayers today that all goes smoothly and she delivers a healthy baby!! So it looks as if the baby will have a July 21st birthday!!! Take care!

Tomorrow, the Big Day?

2008-07-20T09:30:00.002-05:00

Well, today is just another hot day here in Kansas. We just arrived home from church a little bit ago. We have plans to get the yard mowed and then later, take the kids to the parade and fair in Marshall County.

Yesterday, we all went to work with Michael. He is really busy right now, and his help couldn't work, so that meant, we did. It was not bad. The house we were doing had the A/C on, so that helped. The kids were not a lot of help, but they didn't do too bad. Syd actually fell asleep after we had lunch.

Tomorrow I have my Dr apt with Dr Walsh at 7:30. Bright and Early. We will find out if he will do an induction tomorrow or Wednesday. It all depends on what the surgery schedule for tomorrow looks like. Since Onaga is a small hospital, they only have one anesthetist, and one surgery suite. So they do not like to plan inductions if the surgery staff and unit is busy. That way the anesthetist is not trying to do epidurals and surgery cases at the same time. Also, if for some unforeseen reason it would go into a C-section, you do not have to worry about the surgery suite already being in use. It is a lot different from a large hospital. So we will see in the morning. At this point, I do not have a preference as to which day it is.

So I will try to let all know what is going on. That is about all of the news for now.

Prayer Request

2008-07-16T07:55:00.002-05:00

I have a request for prayers for a friend at this time. His name is Brian Fiedler. He was in a really bad accident last night. I do not have details at this time. What I know is he is in ICU, he was life starred from the scene. He rolled his truck coming home from work. They are not sure how long he was lying there, but after help arrived it took 11 minutes to regain a pulse. He is having a brain scan, or test of somekind this morning to check his brain activity. He and his wife have two small children. He has a great job so that his wife Mindy can stay home. They could really, really, use some prayers this morning.

Just wanted to Share New Photos

2008-07-15T10:19:00.004-05:00

Madison and Michael going to the poker run on Sunday. She had a blast.

Dylan playing ball in the tournament. He played the whole game last night. They lost so they will play for 3rd tonight. Dylan had a awesome double play. He caught a fly in right field and then threw to 1st and got the out also.

37 weeks, 2 days and counting, no more than 8 left.

Baby Checkup Today

2008-07-14T13:45:00.002-05:00

So here is the scoop. I am dilated 2-3 effaced about 50%. The head is lower. So if I do not go before next Monday, we will schedule induction next week. Possible Monday, but more likely for Wednesday. Mother Nature could take course before then, but if not we will shoot for that.

Dylan won his ball game last night. So they play tonight at 8:00. They will play again tomorrow night I believe, win or lose.

Madison had a blast on the poker run. She, I guess, was the hit of the show. I have pictures to post so I will try to get that done in the next day or two.

Also I would like to ask for prayers for a lady that lives in our town. She is fighting breast cancer and has two small children. Her blog is marshagrossnickle.blogspot.com. Please place her in your prayers.

Ballgames and Poker Run

2008-07-13T12:12:00.004-05:00

Well, nothing too exciting to report today. Dylan has a ballgame in tournaments at 4:00 today. Sydnie, Dylan and I are going to go to the ballgame. It is in St. Benedict, so not too far to travel.

Michael and Madison went on a poker run this afternoon. The ALR chapter that Michael belongs to is putting it on, so he felt he needed to go. Madison is on her first long Harley ride. We bought her and Dylan a DOT rated helmet the other day, so they can ride with Michael now. I hope she knows, by the end her rump is going to be sore, and her neck from holding up that helmet. She was very excited. I got pictures of her before they left and one as they were leaving.

Other than that, just another day. I hope it stays a little cool. It wasn't too hot when I was outside hanging up laundry about an hour ago. It was a beautiful night last night.

No News Yet

2008-07-10T12:42:00.003-05:00

I was supposed to have a Dr apt this morning, but due to a false alarm on Monday, I did not. Not much had changed on Monday. I know it is getting very close. I am noticing changes that indicate it will not be long. I am getting very anxious.
Michael must be anxious as well. He had me pack the Suburban this morning. That way nothing will get left behind. He has never had me do this before.
Dylan has ball tournaments Sunday at 4:00 at St. Benedict for anyone who is interested. This is the pee wee tournament. Michael and Madison are hoping to be on a poker run on Sunday also. Depends on what is happening.
I will let everyone know if there are any changes.

No Baby Yet

2008-07-07T10:11:00.002-05:00

I know there are several of you wondering, so I thought I should let you know that there is no baby yet. And the good news is I am officially 36 weeks, so I can deliver in Onaga anytime now. I do have Dr apt on Thursday. I am thinking he may do a sono to check baby's size then, but we will have to wait and see.

I also wanted to thank all of you that came for the 4th. I hope you all had a great time. I know we all enjoyed it. We did forget to do the 3 legged race, but there is always next year.

Happy 4th of July

2008-07-04T13:03:00.003-05:00

We just wanted to wish everyone a very safe and fun July 4.